Jingle14 Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 Bloody Rhianna and Chris Brown, Kelly Brook and Danny Cipriani after splits of 4 and 3 years respectively (and Kelly Brook even got pregant with the one after Danny who she only just split up with). Why is it never me?! Supposedly, those couples 'never fell out of love with each other' - so why am I dead to my ex?! Life just isn't fair. But I'm sure I'm not alone in thinking that! 1
Els Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 Rihanna and Chris Brown are just a total wreck waiting to happen. 1
Sav Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 two reunions out of the countless hollywood break ups? Just google breakups of 2012. To name a few, Tom Cruise (5 year marriage), Johnny Depp (14 Year relationship), Heidi Klum (6 year marriage) and SO many more. Breakups happen, things change and it's no use waiting around for a reconciliation. If down the road it happens and you still want it, good for you but that doesn't mean you should just waste your life away. Be strong, it's always such events that happened to us that actually makes us a much better and stronger person. Be thankful for everything P.s: Yeap, life isn't fair. We have it good. Look at the kids in Africa. I'm not trying to be a Saint but at least we don't have much to worry about. Some of them even die before experiencing love. I'm really thankful for being able to experience every single relationship I had and knowing I was part of their lives, even for a short while 3
Zammo25 Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 I am dead to my ex now she is with Mr Wonderful a guy 100 x better than me in everyway. She would not walk across the street to help me if I dropped down and died. She does not give a f*ck anymore. It is hard to deal with for sure. Maybe I deserve this.
bitterruin Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 I wouldn't want to be in a relationship like Rihanna's and Chris Brown's anyway. Not that I know them or am I judging them, but when a relationship gets to the point where you end up in the hospital and your bruised up face is all over the Internet and magazine covers I think solitude is a much better and healthier alternative. With that said I can answer your question, not that I know you nor your ex, but we are dead to our exes because the relationship wasn't working, things ended for a reason and holding on to the desire of bringing them back is going to do nothing but keep hope alive. The only thing we can do is let them go, they're not coming back just because Rihanna and Chris did. 1
bitterruin Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 I am dead to my ex now she is with Mr Wonderful a guy 100 x better than me in everyway. She would not walk across the street to help me if I dropped down and died. She does not give a f*ck anymore. It is hard to deal with for sure. Maybe I deserve this. So then f**k her. Why do you want to be with a person as selfish and cruel as her? Stop putting yourself down and calling him Mr. Wonderful, I'm sure he's not all that anyway. If he's as selfish as her then those two deserve each other, not that that's any of your business anyway. Focus on loving yourself now rather than crying over someone who doesn't want to be part of your life.
Zammo25 Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 So then f**k her. Why do you want to be with a person as selfish and cruel as her? Stop putting yourself down and calling him Mr. Wonderful, I'm sure he's not all that anyway. If he's as selfish as her then those two deserve each other, not that that's any of your business anyway. Focus on loving yourself now rather than crying over someone who doesn't want to be part of your life. I wish I could. She has utterly destroyed me now. I am a worthless piece of sh*t really.
Zammo25 Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 And he is. A real hunk. good ,money, own lovely house, steady, good money, decent pension lined up, emotionally and financially stable, a real catch that makes me utterly worthless in everyway. I have to accept this.
bitterruin Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 And he is. A real hunk. good ,money, own lovely house, steady, good money, decent pension lined up, emotionally and financially stable, a real catch that makes me utterly worthless in everyway. I have to accept this. How do you know all of this anyway? Also, I fail to see how this is any of your business.
Zammo25 Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 How do you know all of this anyway? Also, I fail to see how this is any of your business. It is not my business they can do what the f*ck they want.
lilacwine Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 Bloody Rhianna and Chris Brown, Kelly Brook and Danny Cipriani after splits of 4 and 3 years respectively (and Kelly Brook even got pregant with the one after Danny who she only just split up with). Why is it never me?! Supposedly, those couples 'never fell out of love with each other' - so why am I dead to my ex?! Life just isn't fair. But I'm sure I'm not alone in thinking that! God. I do the same thing all the time, ie looking at famous reunions and wishing one day my ex would return. To name a few more couples, Jude Law and Sienna Miller (breakup again, sadly), Nicole Schezringer and Hamilton, Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel (with a happy ending). To be honest, i was completely overjoyed when I discovered that Rihanna and Chris are back together. I always knew they had a thing for each other and it's a wonderful story for unending love no matter how bad the breakup and despite a long long time apart. However, like what you pointed out, I learn it the hard way that life is not fair and it's useless pining for an ex who totally ignored my existence. But your heart keeps messing with your head with all the false hope, aint it? No matter how you try to push him away, in your heart, you still secretly desire his unlikely return. And you ended up stuck forever.... (
Author Jingle14 Posted February 12, 2013 Author Posted February 12, 2013 God. I do the same thing all the time, ie looking at famous reunions and wishing one day my ex would return. To name a few more couples, Jude Law and Sienna Miller (breakup again, sadly), Nicole Schezringer and Hamilton, Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel (with a happy ending). To be honest, i was completely overjoyed when I discovered that Rihanna and Chris are back together. I always knew they had a thing for each other and it's a wonderful story for unending love no matter how bad the breakup and despite a long long time apart. However, like what you pointed out, I learn it the hard way that life is not fair and it's useless pining for an ex who totally ignored my existence. But your heart keeps messing with your head with all the false hope, aint it? No matter how you try to push him away, in your heart, you still secretly desire his unlikely return. And you ended up stuck forever.... ( Nicole and Lewis have split 3 times too but still go back to each other! I look at Rihanna resting her head on his shoulder and she looks so happy and content - how I remember that, I have photos of me looking exactly the same (although not with her looks, obviously!!). Those feelings seem like another lifetime.
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