Lonely Ronin Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 Why do you feel the need to compete with others over this? Why do you need to be more assertive/confident than the next male? So expressing a differing opinion and not faltering, is being competitive/assertive/confident? Man if you don't like points of view on LS, you would hate them in real life. Do you know how annoying these qualities come off to people? To some people I'm sure they do, and those are the people i don't associate with in real life.
Lonely Ronin Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 was never referring to your dealings on LS You know half your responses make no sense.
Lonely Ronin Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 Confidence is the greater equalizer when it comes to dating. It more than makes up for any physical flaws one can have. Shhhhh, most people on LS don't want to hear that..........
Treasa Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 My boyfriend has a quiet confidence. He's one of the nicest, most patient people in the world, but he doesn't let people disrespect him. He's very firm but gentle when asserting himself. People love the hell out of him. I'm the brash, mouthy one.
colombiana28 Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 as a woman, i can definitely say, there is no greater aphrodisiac than confidence. i don't know how to define it, but here's an example of the EXACT opposite: there's this guy i'm friends with on facebook who always posts status updates such as... "today i watched a marathon of storage wars, went out to dinner with my beautiful girlfriend and came home and watched dexter. well, 2 of the 3 happened. haha." "just once i want someone to find ME 'amazing.' is it really too much to ask?" "it sure felt great to snuggle with my amazing girlfriend under the christmas tree tonight. oh wait, i have no girlfriend. #foreveralone" and the craziest thing is, when people have called him out about whining and being so publicly pathetic and how women aren't attracted to that, he just says "i'm just joking around, haven't you heard of self deprecation?" umm, no, that's not self deprecation. that's pathetic and unnecessary.
pteromom Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 as a woman, i can definitely say, there is no greater aphrodisiac than confidence. i don't know how to define it, but here's an example of the EXACT opposite: there's this guy i'm friends with on facebook who always posts status updates such as... "today i watched a marathon of storage wars, went out to dinner with my beautiful girlfriend and came home and watched dexter. well, 2 of the 3 happened. haha." "just once i want someone to find ME 'amazing.' is it really too much to ask?" "it sure felt great to snuggle with my amazing girlfriend under the christmas tree tonight. oh wait, i have no girlfriend. #foreveralone" and the craziest thing is, when people have called him out about whining and being so publicly pathetic and how women aren't attracted to that, he just says "i'm just joking around, haven't you heard of self deprecation?" umm, no, that's not self deprecation. that's pathetic and unnecessary. I agree! I am VERY repelled by these posts. It sounds like he's all about whining and not doing anything about it. Also that he is spending his life just sitting around in front of a computer waiting for a girlfriend to show up. As if any woman wants to be a part of that kind of life. Go out - be interesting! Live a life that will attract people to it.
SteveC80 Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 As a man youre better off bein arrogant then insecure..women like dominance more then humility
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