MrDrama Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 She broke up with me after 4 years at 9:55AM today. Been waiting all day for a text, sitting in this dark room crying my eyes out. Can't even watch my favorite TV show tonight (walking dead) because im so depressed. I feel worthless. I just found out she had cheated on me less then a hour ago. I miss the companionship and its only been 10 hours. I have to go to work tomorrow and work with her as well, I have no clue how to approach that....Just am crying a lot. Im not sure if I can hold back my tears when working tomorrow.
destroyed4sho Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 First day is horrible, then the next few weeks are pretty bad too. I remember the first day I found out that they may be seeing someone else...*not yet confirmed* I couldn't even breathe, I was gasping for air. I think you have to stay away from her and do not talk to her at work. Avoid her for the first week at least. It gets better, I am over a month NC and feel better but I was at where you are for 5 months with LC...just now things are starting to change a little bit. I still have my moments where I break down, cry and panic attacks but its been getting better.
Inviv_girl Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 Welcome to the club! lol... hey I'm sorry she broke up with you, I know how you feel coz I've been there. Its really hurt. Do not talk to her and avoid to see her or hear anything about her. It will be very hard because you work together but try really try your best to avoid that b*tch who cheated on you!
broken1015 Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 I'm so sorry for all of the pain you're dealing with right now. I wish I could help, but all I can say is hang on. I'm trying to do the same thing. Seven years with a commitment phobe is no picnic. He just left me and I'm just trying to hang on to the last little bit of sanity I have. It's a confusing mess for all of us, we'll get through. That's why we're here, right? For now, just cry..... Get it out, give yourself a day or two, and then do your best to brush yourself off a little. It's going to hurt, there is no getting around that, but there ARE people who truly care.... My best to you.... **hugs**
Derpderpleton Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 I have to work with my ex too. She broke up with me 2 weeks ago. Even worse, she's at the stage of the break up where she gets pissed/annoyed at everything I do just to justify her decision. I'm also aware that she's desperately trying to 'talk' to other guys. You're not alone, man. It sucks, but you have to push through it and NEVER let her see you all sad and depressed. That doesn't mean you have to be all chipper. Just keep your head up when she's around. She doesn't deserve the satisfaction of seeing you upset.
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