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What is the best way to get over a broken heart?

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SushiX Established Member

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I think the best way to get over a broken heart is to whore it up with random people. Works every time for me!

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destroyed4sho Established Member

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Totally agree. I have been working myself up to that. I never though I'd say this but I NEED to become a WHORE!! It will definitely happen soon, I can feel it brewing...:D

I can't wait until I'm ready to burst out of this cacoon. It really is the FASTED route out of this depressing state...especially if you hook up with HOT HOT people...its definitely an ego booster.

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NoLeafClover Established Member

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Sleeping around has never worked for me.

 

Best medicine I found is finding someone you're really into and ending up with them.

Spending the time to get to know the person and develop some feelings emotionally always worked to keep my ex's crossing my mind for weeks.

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Mme. Chaucer Established Member

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That would require people willing to have sex with you.

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gonefishin Established Member

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It's funny how we all take it differently ....

I think casual sex and a bit of slap n tickle would work a charm !!! Haha

Only thing I don't have the onfidence to leave the house right now let alone

Talk to a girl!!!

I do see a little hope and things do get clearer with time ......

LostOne1 Established Member

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What has worked for me has been hanging with friends and spending lots of time on myself. And finally finding someone else that you like and want to give a chance too.

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cdt76 Established Member

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If someone knew the answer to this question, this website wouldn't exist and he/she would be the richest person on the planet. The answer is strictly individual. What works for me, might not work for you. I know a lot of people on here are anti-religion and all but think about this. (This is actually my biggest issue in life and if I could find a way to solve it, then I would be much better able to handle adversity in life)

 

We as a group of people here tend to justify our self-worth by what others think about us. We were dumped and someone stopped loving us, thus our self worth is crap because of it. We want others to approve of the person we are. What we have to come to learn, internalize, is that our worth is defined by a higher authority and we are great, honest, sincere and beautiful people. Our worth is not defined by some other person who is a bag of mess themselves. Once we can figure out how to start thinking that and believing it, then heartache will cease to exist. Just my two cents.

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God i feel soooooo dirty an disgusting now and i think i need a long scalding hot shower.

 

....ha i wish. Just watched tv last night.....booooring. Somme drama like dragging y self home at 6am in the morning hung over and feeling disgusting would be a nice change up :) I'm serious. LOL

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mutant Established Member

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I totally support the idea of banging random women after BU. Problem is, it's difficult to find people that will have sex with you without developing emotions. Both women that I have been sleeping with during the last two months have called it off because I couldn't commit myself to a relationship. I have temporarily called it off because this strategy does not always bring the desired outcomes. Just like other strategies such as NC, whoring youself up won't help you get over an ex instantly. However, I can assure you that you wont be thinking of your ex when banging these women especially if they're HOT! ;-)

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flitzanu Established Member

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i guess if a relationship isn't forever, at least Herpes is.

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For me it's always distraction, distraction, distraction, moment of reflection, distraction, distraction, distraction. The distraction comes in many forms, but never unattached sex with someone else. I don't even enjoy sex if I don't care for the person. Traveling with a best friend always helps if you have extra cash to do so.

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I think it can be a temporary distraction - but I also think it can make things worse - if the sex is bad you miss your ex - if they do or say something you don't particularly agree with you will compare them to your ex. I think the best thing after a break up - especially if you're not over your ex is to figure out what you want and be ok on your own for awhile.

 

Having said that I still had a hook up after my RL ended - helped me feel better for a short time...and then...

destroyed4sho Established Member

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i guess if a relationship isn't forever, at least Herpes is.

 

Herpes will stick with you no matter what, good times and bad..lol...

 

I don't know what feels worse, grieving over an ex or herpes...Maybe I don't wanna find out.

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I think the best way to get over a broken heart is to whore it up with random people. Works every time for me!

 

But won't you feel empty afterwards? Sex is just a physical thing, at least to me. It doesn't help you feel better about yourself, if anything, I think it does the opposite.

 

Focus on yourself is the best way to get over a heartbreak i think!

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Herpes will stick with you no matter what, good times and bad..lol...

 

I don't know what feels worse, grieving over an ex or herpes...Maybe I don't wanna find out.

 

Grieving over herpes would win I think. I mean you could shout abuse to your ex to make you feel better, but you can't exactly shout abuse to your infected genital to make you feel better. :confused:

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Fallen Petals Established Member

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yeah....I was gonna try that...that's how xMM and I hooked up...and now I have to find and piece together the shards of my heart...so....no thanks.

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I think the best way to get over a broken heart is to whore it up with random people. Works every time for me!

 

best way to mend a broken heart is:

 

1) no contact - the less you know, the less broken your heart will be.

2) go shopping, buy clothes, hit the gym with friends, take trips, work on yourself... all of these things help you feel good about yourself.

3) keeping busy. this will leave you with no time to miss your ex.

4) date - sure, go out with people. have fun, make out, laugh. its not always going to be successful, sometimes u will think of the ex, but when u meet cool people, it always helps.

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GingerVixen Established Member

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I think the best way to get over a broken heart is to whore it up with random people. Works every time for me!

 

That's the worst way IMO.

 

I've mended my broken heart with religion (but many people are atheists here so I won't talk much about it), and thinking that we cannot struggle to keep a relationship alive if the other person doesn't respect us.

I've also seen that the man I used to think to be special was only a myth inside my head. In fact he's a douche , he's not able to love anyone and I ended up pitying him.

One day I woke up feeling that I just didn't need that person in my life anymore. I had cried a lot before. Then one day, I don't know when, I quit crying.

 

I've been told that you can never remember when was the specific day when you stopped suffering. One day you just wake up completely healed.

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