syw0806 Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 I went on the first date with this guy, we met online.. He kept texting me everyday to see me,, I didn't realize he's a shy guy because of the fact that he would keep asking to meet up,,and we communicate via texts and he was pretty flirty. Anyways we finally met, went out for dinner, had fun.. well after the dinner he right away dropped me to my house lol it was like 2-3 hr date. We never even kissed hold hands anything. it felt more like friendly outing than a date haha He told me we should do it again, but he didn't set exact time because he wanted to see how his schedule and my schedule go. He finally asked me to give him a hug, and he kissed on my ..upper ear..on my head lol I don't count that as a kiss but anyways He texted me on his way to home saying I'm adorable. I asked him why he didn't tell me that in the car and he said he's shy. so I kinda figured that's why he didn't make any move.. Then he asked me if I wanted to stay out longer so when I replied 'yes but we can do it next time', he wanted to come again pick me up. now this is the next day, he hasn't texted me..or anything so I was wondering if this is something to do with his shyness or guys just don't text everyday after the first date..
PogoStick Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 There are no rules. Don't play games! If you're interested then go ahead and contact him.
clia Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 now this is the next day, he hasn't texted me..or anything so I was wondering if this is something to do with his shyness or guys just don't text everyday after the first date.. It could be that he's shy. It could be that he doesn't want to appear too clingy so he is holding off for a couple of days. It could be that he is waiting to hear from you. It could be that his MO is to wait two days after a date to contact. It could be any number of things. No need to panic yet -- it's still early. If you want, there is nothing wrong with sending him a SHORT text thanking him for a nice evening. However, if you haven't heard from him in three days (or he does not respond to your text with an attempt to make plans to see you again), it means he is probably not interested.
animalover Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 I went on the first date with this guy, we met online.. He kept texting me everyday to see me,, I didn't realize he's a shy guy because of the fact that he would keep asking to meet up,,and we communicate via texts and he was pretty flirty. Anyways we finally met, went out for dinner, had fun.. well after the dinner he right away dropped me to my house lol it was like 2-3 hr date. We never even kissed hold hands anything. it felt more like friendly outing than a date haha He told me we should do it again, but he didn't set exact time because he wanted to see how his schedule and my schedule go. He finally asked me to give him a hug, and he kissed on my ..upper ear..on my head lol I don't count that as a kiss but anyways He texted me on his way to home saying I'm adorable. I asked him why he didn't tell me that in the car and he said he's shy. so I kinda figured that's why he didn't make any move.. Then he asked me if I wanted to stay out longer so when I replied 'yes but we can do it next time', he wanted to come again pick me up. now this is the next day, he hasn't texted me..or anything so I was wondering if this is something to do with his shyness or guys just don't text everyday after the first date.. mmmm why don't you text him????
Author syw0806 Posted February 12, 2013 Author Posted February 12, 2013 Guys!! so I figured MAYBE he's shy, he thinks I'm not interested, so and so,, I texted him today asking how's his day going. which he replied 'good.you?' so I replied again, 'good.working??' and it's been 4-5 hours, haven't heard from him. and I am 100% sure he's not busy esp. this time. so I guess he's just not that into me.. I don't think he didn't make move because he's not that interested or something, since he wanted to come back see me again... but now he's taking long time to reply me back, and the fact we never really had convo thru texts, he is either not a phone person only use phone to set up date, or not that interested... but even though you don't communicate via text, don't you still reply and do text back and forth little bit..?? I'm sad now
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