creighton0123 Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 Well, I did get a little anxiety attack onset. Teared up a little. Laid down, watched some TV, and kept my breathing slow. Since my ex left our apartment, I realized I am in limbo. His stuff is still here and there is still *our* stuff (the couch and mattress, mainly). I know that he has made up his mind and I will not try to get him back. Out of anger, I am going to say I don't want him back since he was more willing to leave rather than work on his unhappiness. I emailed him a list of decisions and informed him that I would rather he move his stuff out sooner rather than later, and can be out of the apartment when he comes to collect his things. I don't want this to drag on. I don't want this to be "our" place for the next week or two. It's not fair to me when I am going to do my best to spend the next few weeks turning the apartment that I love into my apartment again.
iouaname Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 Aw I'm sorry that this happened! You're doing the right thing, though. Stay strong!
TaraMaiden Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 Oh Creighton, that's a real schytt deal, I am really sorry.... Bud, hang in there. You know you're following the best course of action. Hugs sweet. if you need to, PM me any time. Just for that odd bit of support.... Take care. (((hugs))) TM.
Author creighton0123 Posted February 11, 2013 Author Posted February 11, 2013 Aw I'm sorry that this happened! You're doing the right thing, though. Stay strong! Thanks. I'm hoping to get him moved out sooner rather than later, to begin a few months no contact to reestablish myself.
Els Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 Sorry to hear this, creighton. I've been following your posts here for a while, and you seem like a great guy. His loss. Stay strong {{{hugs}}}
Author creighton0123 Posted February 11, 2013 Author Posted February 11, 2013 Sorry to hear this, creighton. I've been following your posts here for a while, and you seem like a great guy. His loss. Stay strong {{{hugs}}} Thanks, Elswyth. To think I spent a year in an LDR with him and only a year and a few months in person. Oh well. I'll be on and off here to vent and complain in the next few weeks, especially when it comes to my necessary apartment search to get out of a place that is way too big for just me.
gonefishin Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 Stay in touch on here .. It will help you.. And don't worry if your doing some very crazy and out of character stuff At the moment it's completed normal for most of us.... My only advice is maybe stop contacting him at the moment as emotions Are way to raw and we say things we really can't take back.. I still cringe thinking of what I done during a breakup!! Save your dignity and post it here! Haha It's all very raw and I feel your pain but nothing is certain in this life and what's meant for you won't pass you.. Hope your ok..
Mme. Chaucer Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 I too have been following your posts, and I am sorry you're going through this. Pain sucks. Try listening to this song: It might help you feel better - ultimate break up song. Or maybe it will make you cry; I hope not.
Recommended Posts