randomcodex Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 Well it says it all on the title. My girlfriend for about 3 years broke up with me. We are a little bit different though. We are actually lesbians so I guess it isn't as the same as most people are going through. We were actually very sweet to each other. In fact from the very beginning of the relationship, she initiated the fact that we should text each other 24/7, always update each other and etc. I was actually hesitant about it at first, because she might get thired of me and I I was scared if I didn't agree with her she'd get mad so prettty much we got used to texting each other everyday almost about 24/7. Unfortunately, her brother passed away about 3 month we were dating, and I knew from then on that things will be different. She won't be as happy anymore. Actually she admitted that she felt guilty about some of the things that she did to him when he passed away. That's when she realized that she only cared about her needs and never spent enough time with her brother. Well whenever we argued, she always opened up the fact that she regretted hanging out with me when her brother was in the hospital. When I told her myself, that she should hang with her brother and take care of him at the hospital. But at that time she chose to hang with me. I never even forced her to. I was focused that she needed to be there for her brother, but instead she had the nerve to guilt trip me and said that I was the reason why she didn't hang with her brother... Just lately, she's been very moody. I don't know what it is. Maybe the fact that we know each other too well and she's comfy with me made her feel very secured. Well she broke it off last Tuesday... She said I was being manipulative when she was the one that got me used to the fact that we should text 24/7.. And now all of a sudden I have to abide by her rules and stop texting just because she wanted too... Guys, I don't know what to do. This girl controlled me too from the very beg of the relationship but I never said anything. All of a sudden now, she changed and said I was emotionally manipulative when it was her. She actually cussed at me and called me a whore, slut, bitch, psychotic, ass and ****er... It hurted me A LOT but I still want to be with her. What sucks is we both have a class together at night twice a week for about 6 hours... The very first night of class which was a Tuesday, we didn't talk to each other. She said she never wanted to see me again, call me again or talk to me again. So I respected that. I'm sure she saw me in class and I pretended she wasn't there. I changed the way I look, so it didn't look like I was depressed and I was doing better. All of a sudden, on Wednesday she texted me and said stuff about Chemistry so we are talking again. She knows my password on Facebook and right after class, I was looking at my activity log and she was searching the profile of the girl that used to like me. I'm wondering if does she still want to be withme, even she said she doesn't want to be. She looked at the girls page like 4 times a week. And also she's been texting randomly and asked oh so did you get the chem homework. And so far, it's been about 3 nights she called about "chem" but she also talks about random things too.. What do you guys think I should do? It's kind of a different case because we are both girls... Any help is appreciated.
destroyed4sho Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 Time to change your password??! Not really clear why she broke up with you, maybe subconciously she is blaming you for not seeing her brother in the hospital. Best to just cut her off is she dumped you and verbally abused you.
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