singlelife Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 It's hard to explain when you connect with someone. Doesn't matter if you're both not exclusive at that time. It's just awesome but you never know where it's gonna go. I guess all you can do is wait it out and see what's up.
Author singlelife Posted February 10, 2013 Author Posted February 10, 2013 That depends..... on what? please explain.
TaraMaiden Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 on whether your connection is honourable or not. If it leads you to cheating, then the connection is physical, and carnally-prompted. If you are open with your respective partners, and can keep this connection to an amicable level, then that's nice for you. But for 'connection' I read 'sexual attraction'. And that's never good, particularly if those 'connected' are in an exclusive relationship with someone else. THis really doesn't make sense.... It's just awesome but you never know where it's gonna go. Rubbish. What you mean is, you never know really how far it's going to go, but you definitely want it to go somewhere.... I guess all you can do is wait it out and see what's up. Again, this is baloney. You're in the driving seat. Wait - for what? What do you expect to happen? All that can happen is what you MAKE happen. If you sit there in a dark room, and never come out, then obviously, waiting it out means nothing will ever be 'up'. But people don't 'wait it out'. They make moves, and chivvy things along until "We couldn't help it, it just happened, we just had this wonderful connection". 'Connection' my foot. Both got horny and both wanted some.
Author singlelife Posted February 10, 2013 Author Posted February 10, 2013 on whether your connection is honourable or not. If it leads you to cheating, then the connection is physical, and carnally-prompted. If you are open with your respective partners, and can keep this connection to an amicable level, then that's nice for you. But for 'connection' I read 'sexual attraction'. And that's never good, particularly if those 'connected' are in an exclusive relationship with someone else. THis really doesn't make sense.... Rubbish. What you mean is, you never know really how far it's going to go, but you definitely want it to go somewhere.... Again, this is baloney. You're in the driving seat. Wait - for what? What do you expect to happen? All that can happen is what you MAKE happen. If you sit there in a dark room, and never come out, then obviously, waiting it out means nothing will ever be 'up'. But people don't 'wait it out'. They make moves, and chivvy things along until "We couldn't help it, it just happened, we just had this wonderful connection". 'Connection' my foot. Both got horny and both wanted some. we never had sex yet. and i shared that i am attracted sexually but that i am also attracted to her even without the sex.
TaraMaiden Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 we never had sex yet. and i shared that i am attracted sexually but that i am also attracted to her even without the sex. Yeah.... If she turned round to you and said, "I think you're an amazing friend, but please know, I am never, but never, ever going to have sex with you. Put it out of your mind, because honestly, hell would freeze over first, but I really like you as a friend" Your 'being attracted even without the sex' would take a nose-dive, and pretty quickly evaporate.
TaraMaiden Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 Although I feel TaraMaiden seems a bit cynical in her reply, I do agree with her. (However, where did the idea of infidelity come up?) It's hard to explain when you connect with someone. Doesn't matter if you're both not exclusive at that time. I did ask - he hasn't actually replied to that - and his initial OP seemed to be ambiguous... 'not exclusive'.... what with each other? With others? I wanted clarification, that's all.... Confusing first post, really.....
Author singlelife Posted February 10, 2013 Author Posted February 10, 2013 Are you 'exclusive' with someone else? Ok let me clarify lol. This will clear it up. 1. We made out a lot and I hung out with her friends. We talked about what I posted before. 2. Just met her so we both shared we are currently dating around already and we aren't officially dating each other but we felt we had a connection and if it works out it does no stress. 3. We both shared we had sexual attraction among other things when we were making out and talking.
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