Lellewyn Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 Hi everyone! I'm new but not just to loveshack, to dating in general... I'm 19 but never been real successful in the whole dating thing. I started working at this restaurant, and I started working with a shift manager who is AMAZING. He's good looking, super sweet, tall, smart, the works. I never thought I ever had a chance so I just never bothered. But one day on a whim and after much pressure from friends I attempted to "flirt". Here is where I need assitance. When I started flirting, or what I hope was flirting (sneaking glances, playfully teasing him, being really extra kind, etc.), he started to treat me differently than normal. He started to tease me back more than normal and apologized when I pretended to act offended, he never used to apologize, he also started doing things to make me laugh. (Acting goofy, singing, wearing a head band) He's already a pretty funny guy. So I don't know if it was just his mood, Cause I haven't worked with him for more than a month yet. He treated me differently than the others and he didn't back off or anything at my flirting, and kept showing up and talked to me a lot. I don't want to come off too strong, and I know some guys can be oblivious... I'm just really new to this whole thing... He's about 6 years older than me, but that doesn't seem to matter, and certainly doesn't bother me. But I honestly can't tell if he's being nice because he feels sorry for me, or if there's something there. I don't want to put stock in something that might not exist at all. :/ Thanks in advance!
sweetkiwi Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 ^^^ Agreed. Don't date your shift manager. That's dumb.
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