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Is it safe to say she's not into me?


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I've been texting a girl back and forth for a few weeks. She's an absolute beauty and I've taken her out to the movies once (she lives in another state). We even hooked up a couple years ago but we were both drunk so I try not to put too much meaning into it.

 

Well a little while ago I was feeling a little adventurous so I called her a nickname of one of the female characters in the movie that we saw. In response she asked "what should I call you then?" So I said she could call me the name of the love interest of the female character from the movie.

 

In response I got "lol you're funny!" with a bunch of other unrelated stuff. Yikes... Pretty sure that's a rejection am I right? Or am I reading too much into it and she really thought it really was funny for some reason? :\

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Reading too much into it

 

IDK I just feel like it was a perfect opportunity for her to flirt back and she chose not to.

 

I'm kinda desperate cause overall this girl is really freaking hard to read. lol

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Don't think about it. Just ask her out again!

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Don't think about it. Just ask her out again!

 

But is it a bad sign if the girl doesn't actively try to flirt back? So far the closest thing shes said through text was "you're not to bad of a guy yourself ;)".

 

Sorry for being so clueless but I haven't been single and part of the dating scene for quite a bit.

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I'd really like to get some more opinions if I could though.

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I wouldn't put too much into that comment. Have another get together and see what you see there.

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Yeah you guys are probably right... I guess some women are just more reluctant to flirt than others.

 

Oh well I'm still sending her a happy valentines text regardless. You win some you lose some, right? ;)

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