Terminal-Ice Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 Ok My question is how do I get him to move this forward without looking despo?? Egad. This sounds like the same situation I had with a guy from my biking group who I fell for...ended up being a bad situation (I was a convenience) and I chose to walk away. It took a few very hard months to get over him. My advice, walk away. Just. Walk. Away. If a guy wants to be with you, he will make the effort. My "bad experience" did after I told him, "Okay, the ball is in your court. When you want to finally get together, you let me know." He made doable plans immediately after that message. In hindsight, I wish he hadn't.
sid3 Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 do you think it will make him step it up? I would think so. If he doesn't, he'll at least give you a better idea of where you stand. I'm guessing he's waiting for more of a green light from you. Guys, myself included, can be pretty oblivious at times.
TheGuard13 Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 You work together. Just ask him to lunch. Easy way to be able to talk a little more intimately than text. If he won't do it, odds are he's not that interested, or he's a bit intimidated/anxious about the whole thing.
Author Lishy Posted February 10, 2013 Author Posted February 10, 2013 Egad. This sounds like the same situation I had with a guy from my biking group who I fell for...ended up being a bad situation (I was a convenience) and I chose to walk away. It took a few very hard months to get over him. My advice, walk away. Just. Walk. Away. If a guy wants to be with you, he will make the effort. My "bad experience" did after I told him, "Okay, the ball is in your court. When you want to finally get together, you let me know." He made doable plans immediately after that message. In hindsight, I wish he hadn't. Can you elaborate more on this? Thank you to everyone for your input and I have listened to everything you have all said
Pyro Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 Hey honey! How are things? I guess cos I work with him and know him quite well its all a bit awkward I think I will just ignore his texts now ... He can sh&t or get off the pot so to speak! Things are swell. Not sure how long you have been away so maybe you know already but I seduced a female LS'er and married her.:bunny: I can see that being awkward. Why not on a break or another time when you aren't working confront him and let him know how you feel about things. In the meantime yes ignore the texts.
Author Lishy Posted February 10, 2013 Author Posted February 10, 2013 Yes I know about you and the beautiful CE ... I was here when it was all happening! You are a fab couple! Yeah I will ignore the texts, act normal at work and if he asks why I will tell him to pull his finger out or leave it alone! I have a feeling he has other stuff going on tbh!
Pyro Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 Yes I know about you and the beautiful CE ... I was here when it was all happening! You are a fab couple! Yeah I will ignore the texts, act normal at work and if he asks why I will tell him to pull his finger out or leave it alone! I have a feeling he has other stuff going on tbh! Yes we are. Thank you though for the compliment. Sounds like a dodged bullet then. You sounded like you were really into him, so I do hope that he wakes the f*ck up.
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