A n t h o n y Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 I sat for awhile today and literally just felt nothing but a state of sadness. I just started thinking about how my relationship ended and its driving me nuts. Basically she was crying in my arms telling me how she's confused, can't let go of the past but doesn't want to lose or hurt me because I deserve better. After that night I haven't saw or spoke to her a week now so it's like what's she thinking? What's she doing? To make it worse all my friends tell me how she's all happy and **** on FB but how is that possible when she was just crying her eyes out, confused, and a complete mess not even a few days ago. I took work off anytime she works because I can't stand seeing her .... She's always flirty trying to joke with me touching me and acting like everything's fine when it's clearly not. So .... Confused
Fallen Petals Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 What people post on FB doesn't necessarily speak of what they're really thinking or how they're feeling. FB is a front. The motions after a split up can be excruciating to say the least...best thing I can say is that every time she enters your mind, find another thing to think about. It's what I am trying to do...not that I am super great at it...but trying...
Author A n t h o n y Posted February 10, 2013 Author Posted February 10, 2013 What people post on FB doesn't necessarily speak of what they're really thinking or how they're feeling. FB is a front. The motions after a split up can be excruciating to say the least...best thing I can say is that every time she enters your mind, find another thing to think about. It's what I am trying to do...not that I am super great at it...but trying... Yeah that's what I was thinking honestly. Because it doesn't add up at all. only time I'm not stressed out as hell or thinking myself crazy is at the gym anymore. Ha I feel about how I felt 4 months ago after my last relationship. Never thought I'd be back to this point again. Sort of ashamed that I am. Relationships are literally roller-coasters of emotions. Sighhhhh I want to be like 10 again.
Fallen Petals Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 Yeah that's what I was thinking honestly. Because it doesn't add up at all. only time I'm not stressed out as hell or thinking myself crazy is at the gym anymore. Ha I feel about how I felt 4 months ago after my last relationship. Never thought I'd be back to this point again. Sort of ashamed that I am. Relationships are literally roller-coasters of emotions. Sighhhhh I want to be like 10 again. Yeah, I would like to be 4, actually. That was seriously the perfect age. Yeah, so now you hit the gym a ton, read some books if you can keep your mind from wandering back to her...every time it does shift it away again...break ups SUCK.
GingerVixen Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 I hate Facebook. That s*it is evil. It's 100% evil , it ruins lives , your self esteem and your relationships. Hate it. Anyway, what the hell did she just say. can't let go of the past but doesn't want to lose or hurt me because I deserve better. LOL. What kind of excuse is that. Bull****. If you're such a great guy why did she decide to dump you? I don't wanna hurt you , I wanna open your eyes: this "you deserve better" excuse is, in other words: "You're too nice to me , I want a player who treats me badly because I'm a bad woman and I like bad guys, but I don't want to be too cruel to you because I know you're nice and I'm a mean person, so I'll just give you this pathetic excuse, maybe you'll believe it and stop pissing me off". That's what it means. Don't waste your time trying to understand this girl. Her attitude is GARBAGE. She's looking for a player to break her heart. This type of girl is dumb enough to look for players. They like to suffer. Step out of it, you're a true man who deserves a true woman.
Author A n t h o n y Posted February 10, 2013 Author Posted February 10, 2013 I hate Facebook. That s*it is evil. It's 100% evil , it ruins lives , your self esteem and your relationships. Hate it. Anyway, what the hell did she just say. can't let go of the past but doesn't want to lose or hurt me because I deserve better. LOL. What kind of excuse is that. Bull****. If you're such a great guy why did she decide to dump you? I don't wanna hurt you , I wanna open your eyes: this "you deserve better" excuse is, in other words: "You're too nice to me , I want a player who treats me badly because I'm a bad woman and I like bad guys, but I don't want to be too cruel to you because I know you're nice and I'm a mean person, so I'll just give you this pathetic excuse, maybe you'll believe it and stop pissing me off". That's what it means. Don't waste your time trying to understand this girl. Her attitude is GARBAGE. She's looking for a player to break her heart. This type of girl is dumb enough to look for players. They like to suffer. Step out of it, you're a true man who deserves a true woman. You pretty much summed it up with the wanting a "player." It kills me I suppose because she's stunning, we have a ton in common, She made me happy but you're honestly right. Nice guys are boring I suppose. Almost makes me want to rethink my approach on things honestly.
GingerVixen Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 You pretty much summed it up with the wanting a "player." It kills me I suppose because she's stunning, we have a ton in common, She made me happy but you're honestly right. Nice guys are boring I suppose. Almost makes me want to rethink my approach on things honestly. No, please don't say that. Nice guys are NOT BORING. I'm absurdly looking for a nice guy in my life. I'm a nice girl. And I don't think I'm boring. I'm NORMAL. Mean girls are psycho freaks who have psychological problems that's why they're so keen on making people suffer and looking for bad guys to make them suffer too. Don't turn yourself into a bad guy, the world right know lacks good men, trust me, I'm not the only girl who's looking for a real nice guy.
Author A n t h o n y Posted February 10, 2013 Author Posted February 10, 2013 No, please don't say that. Nice guys are NOT BORING. I'm absurdly looking for a nice guy in my life. I'm a nice girl. And I don't think I'm boring. I'm NORMAL. Mean girls are psycho freaks who have psychological problems that's why they're so keen on making people suffer and looking for bad guys to make them suffer too. Don't turn yourself into a bad guy, the world right know lacks good men, trust me, I'm not the only girl who's looking for a real nice guy. Ehh it's hard honestly. Last 3 relationships I've been in have ended in me getting cheated on, "I'm not over my Ex," or you're the best guy ive been with you treat me so well blah blah blah now excuse me while I treat you like trash.
GingerVixen Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 Ehh it's hard honestly. Last 3 relationships I've been in have ended in me getting cheated on, "I'm not over my Ex," or you're the best guy ive been with you treat me so well blah blah blah now excuse me while I treat you like trash. Well I'm telling you the truth. Be careful, maybe you're one of those guys who like b*tches instead of nice girls. Maybe you're the one subconsciously looking for trouble.
Kohdak Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 Give yourself an A on lesson one. You've learned that workplace relationships usually don't end well, and it's always awkwardtown for awhile after they end. Go out and meet girls, the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. Make her jealous - I'm guessing you're a pretty young guy, so you are dating younger girls. They have no freaking idea what they want. They think they want a nice guy, and they find one, but that guy wearing the leather jacket looks interesting. SQUIRREL! My advice? (Worth what you paid for it) Just totally quit talking to this girl - keep going to the gym, and be the kind of person that you want to meet.
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