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It's been four weeks now, and while that's still super incredibly early, I'm really happy. He's this awesome combination of compassion, patience, sweetness, sexuality, intelligence, and incredible humor.

 

He literally has everything I'm looking for in a man. I've known him for eleven months, but we've been getting so much closer lately. :love:

 

Those losers I was upset over (ok, admittedly there was only one I had problems getting over) were worth dating just to be with this one.

 

My standards are really high, he knows it, and he's absolutely amazing.

 

I'm not even worrying about the future. I'm just having fun. If it works out, AWESOME. If not, it was a fun ride.

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Not worrying about the future is the best way to go about it!

:love:

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Love to hear good news :):love:

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Let's not hide it anymore babe. You can tell the forum that guy is me.

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Happy for you Tre ! Am I confusing you with another poster or is the guy that's a bit younger than you ? If so, this last year and a half, I have had the most, peaceful, fun, sexy, supportive relationship I have ever experienced, and he is "Inappropriate" younger than I.;)

 

We also have pretty much nothing in common : I'm city, he's county, I'm tiny, he's huge, I'm an intellectual, he's blue collar, I'm an extrovert, he's an introvert, I love gourmet food, he likes taco bell...I could go on...:laugh:, but bottom line we both have the same " Love language" I guess they call it, so two kind, warm, touchy feely, "relationship is the priority"people found each other in the most surprising of packages !

 

Yay for you, and Happy V-day to you both. Many more !:love::bunny::love:

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Wow! This is great! It's so nice to hear some positive news on this forum!

 

It sounds like you've got the right approach to it, too!

 

Tell us, how did you go from just knowing him 11 months ago to dating?

 

What changed?

 

Who asked who out, ect.?

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It's so refreshing to read such a positive, well-adjusted post. Keep us updated, and congrats!

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So happy for you. He sounds wonderful and amazing. That's to be treasured. Enjoy the ride!:)

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Wow! This is great! It's so nice to hear some positive news on this forum!

 

Entirely agree! Wish you the best, OP. :)

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It's been four weeks now, and while that's still super incredibly early, I'm really happy. He's this awesome combination of compassion, patience, sweetness, sexuality, intelligence, and incredible humor.

 

He literally has everything I'm looking for in a man. I've known him for eleven months, but we've been getting so much closer lately. :love:

 

Those losers I was upset over (ok, admittedly there was only one I had problems getting over) were worth dating just to be with this one.

 

My standards are really high, he knows it, and he's absolutely amazing.

 

I'm not even worrying about the future. I'm just having fun. If it works out, AWESOME. If not, it was a fun ride.

Sounds good. :)

 

Now just be happy and enjoy!

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Let's not hide it anymore babe. You can tell the forum that guy is me.

 

Yeah, it's MrCastle. And the sex is MINDBLOWING. I have to admit, I was a little confused when he brought the donkey in the other night, but sometimes you just gotta go with it.

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Happy for you Tre ! Am I confusing you with another poster or is the guy that's a bit younger than you ? If so, this last year and a half, I have had the most, peaceful, fun, sexy, supportive relationship I have ever experienced, and he is "Inappropriate" younger than I.;)

 

We also have pretty much nothing in common : I'm city, he's county, I'm tiny, he's huge, I'm an intellectual, he's blue collar, I'm an extrovert, he's an introvert, I love gourmet food, he likes taco bell...I could go on...:laugh:, but bottom line we both have the same " Love language" I guess they call it, so two kind, warm, touchy feely, "relationship is the priority"people found each other in the most surprising of packages !

 

Yay for you, and Happy V-day to you both. Many more !:love::bunny::love:

 

Aww, thank you!! :D Yep, he's...many years younger than me, but I'm immature for my age. :laugh: I hope we end up like you.

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Wow! This is great! It's so nice to hear some positive news on this forum!

 

It sounds like you've got the right approach to it, too!

 

Tell us, how did you go from just knowing him 11 months ago to dating?

 

What changed?

 

Who asked who out, ect.?

 

I was dating someone else. This guy and I are part of the same circle of friends. In early January we were watching a football game together, and I started to flirt with him. He started flirting back, and we ended up talking the entire rest of the evening and the entire next day. Before the end of one week he told me he wanted to be with me and just me.

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Nice to see that for once the topic here is a relationship that actually works well!

 

Good luck!

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MrCastle shared our donkey with you? We are gonna have words!

 

 

 

But seriously, congrats!

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MrCastle shared our donkey with you? We are gonna have words!

 

 

 

But seriously, congrats!

 

Apparently the donkey gets around a lot. ;)

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It's been four weeks now, and while that's still super incredibly early, I'm really happy. He's this awesome combination of compassion, patience, sweetness, sexuality, intelligence, and incredible humor.

 

He literally has everything I'm looking for in a man. I've known him for eleven months, but we've been getting so much closer lately. :love:

 

Those losers I was upset over (ok, admittedly there was only one I had problems getting over) were worth dating just to be with this one.

 

My standards are really high, he knows it, and he's absolutely amazing.

 

I'm not even worrying about the future. I'm just having fun. If it works out, AWESOME. If not, it was a fun ride.

 

Does he know about your interest in kink ?

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Nice to see that for once the topic here is a relationship that actually works well!

 

Good luck!

 

I don't want to derail this thread - but this is proof positive that just because you might have enjoyed some casual dalliances in your lifetime, you CAN fall in love and have a committed relationship that works.

 

Take note.

 

Very happy for you OP! :love:

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I don't want to derail this thread - but this is proof positive that just because you might have enjoyed some casual dalliances in your lifetime, you CAN fall in love and have a committed relationship that works.

 

Take note.

 

Very happy for you OP! :love:

 

Ohh please... respect the OP enough not to bring your personal battle against me to her post....

 

I don't think anyone who has had casual sex can't have a great relationship and be happy....just not with me!

 

Sorry OP for the off topic comment but I felt I needed to answer since it was totally directed to me.

 

Again, I am very happy things are working for you! Congrats!

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Does he know about your interest in kink ?

 

Oh God, yeah. ;)

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Oh God, yeah. ;)

 

But does he know what a major freak you are ?

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But does he know what a major freak you are ?

 

Geez, I'm sure if they're having sex he does. Why does this matter?

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Geez, I'm sure if they're having sex he does. Why does this matter?

 

Here, take my Cheerios ... fill them up with warm, yellow liquid.

 

Since you feel the need to stop my teasing of a girl in Cloud 9. :(

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Apparently the donkey gets around a lot. ;)

 

Yes, but he doesn't brag, or kiss and tell. Your secrets are safe!

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