Treasa Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 It's been four weeks now, and while that's still super incredibly early, I'm really happy. He's this awesome combination of compassion, patience, sweetness, sexuality, intelligence, and incredible humor. He literally has everything I'm looking for in a man. I've known him for eleven months, but we've been getting so much closer lately. Those losers I was upset over (ok, admittedly there was only one I had problems getting over) were worth dating just to be with this one. My standards are really high, he knows it, and he's absolutely amazing. I'm not even worrying about the future. I'm just having fun. If it works out, AWESOME. If not, it was a fun ride. 15
miss_jaclynrae Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 Not worrying about the future is the best way to go about it! 1
MrCastle Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 Let's not hide it anymore babe. You can tell the forum that guy is me. 4
melodymatters Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 Happy for you Tre ! Am I confusing you with another poster or is the guy that's a bit younger than you ? If so, this last year and a half, I have had the most, peaceful, fun, sexy, supportive relationship I have ever experienced, and he is "Inappropriate" younger than I. We also have pretty much nothing in common : I'm city, he's county, I'm tiny, he's huge, I'm an intellectual, he's blue collar, I'm an extrovert, he's an introvert, I love gourmet food, he likes taco bell...I could go on..., but bottom line we both have the same " Love language" I guess they call it, so two kind, warm, touchy feely, "relationship is the priority"people found each other in the most surprising of packages ! Yay for you, and Happy V-day to you both. Many more ! 2
ja123 Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 Wow! This is great! It's so nice to hear some positive news on this forum! It sounds like you've got the right approach to it, too! Tell us, how did you go from just knowing him 11 months ago to dating? What changed? Who asked who out, ect.?
AMusing Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 It's so refreshing to read such a positive, well-adjusted post. Keep us updated, and congrats! 1
Cutiepie1976 Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 So happy for you. He sounds wonderful and amazing. That's to be treasured. Enjoy the ride! 1
callingyouuu Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 Wow! This is great! It's so nice to hear some positive news on this forum! Entirely agree! Wish you the best, OP. 1
loverestored Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 It's been four weeks now, and while that's still super incredibly early, I'm really happy. He's this awesome combination of compassion, patience, sweetness, sexuality, intelligence, and incredible humor. He literally has everything I'm looking for in a man. I've known him for eleven months, but we've been getting so much closer lately. Those losers I was upset over (ok, admittedly there was only one I had problems getting over) were worth dating just to be with this one. My standards are really high, he knows it, and he's absolutely amazing. I'm not even worrying about the future. I'm just having fun. If it works out, AWESOME. If not, it was a fun ride. Sounds good. Now just be happy and enjoy!
Author Treasa Posted February 11, 2013 Author Posted February 11, 2013 Let's not hide it anymore babe. You can tell the forum that guy is me. Yeah, it's MrCastle. And the sex is MINDBLOWING. I have to admit, I was a little confused when he brought the donkey in the other night, but sometimes you just gotta go with it.
Author Treasa Posted February 11, 2013 Author Posted February 11, 2013 Happy for you Tre ! Am I confusing you with another poster or is the guy that's a bit younger than you ? If so, this last year and a half, I have had the most, peaceful, fun, sexy, supportive relationship I have ever experienced, and he is "Inappropriate" younger than I. We also have pretty much nothing in common : I'm city, he's county, I'm tiny, he's huge, I'm an intellectual, he's blue collar, I'm an extrovert, he's an introvert, I love gourmet food, he likes taco bell...I could go on..., but bottom line we both have the same " Love language" I guess they call it, so two kind, warm, touchy feely, "relationship is the priority"people found each other in the most surprising of packages ! Yay for you, and Happy V-day to you both. Many more ! Aww, thank you!! Yep, he's...many years younger than me, but I'm immature for my age. I hope we end up like you.
Author Treasa Posted February 11, 2013 Author Posted February 11, 2013 Wow! This is great! It's so nice to hear some positive news on this forum! It sounds like you've got the right approach to it, too! Tell us, how did you go from just knowing him 11 months ago to dating? What changed? Who asked who out, ect.? I was dating someone else. This guy and I are part of the same circle of friends. In early January we were watching a football game together, and I started to flirt with him. He started flirting back, and we ended up talking the entire rest of the evening and the entire next day. Before the end of one week he told me he wanted to be with me and just me.
animalover Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 Nice to see that for once the topic here is a relationship that actually works well! Good luck! 1
MidwestUSA Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 MrCastle shared our donkey with you? We are gonna have words! But seriously, congrats!
Author Treasa Posted February 11, 2013 Author Posted February 11, 2013 MrCastle shared our donkey with you? We are gonna have words! But seriously, congrats! Apparently the donkey gets around a lot.
Radu Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 It's been four weeks now, and while that's still super incredibly early, I'm really happy. He's this awesome combination of compassion, patience, sweetness, sexuality, intelligence, and incredible humor. He literally has everything I'm looking for in a man. I've known him for eleven months, but we've been getting so much closer lately. Those losers I was upset over (ok, admittedly there was only one I had problems getting over) were worth dating just to be with this one. My standards are really high, he knows it, and he's absolutely amazing. I'm not even worrying about the future. I'm just having fun. If it works out, AWESOME. If not, it was a fun ride. Does he know about your interest in kink ?
Drseussgrrl Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 Nice to see that for once the topic here is a relationship that actually works well! Good luck! I don't want to derail this thread - but this is proof positive that just because you might have enjoyed some casual dalliances in your lifetime, you CAN fall in love and have a committed relationship that works. Take note. Very happy for you OP! 1
animalover Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 I don't want to derail this thread - but this is proof positive that just because you might have enjoyed some casual dalliances in your lifetime, you CAN fall in love and have a committed relationship that works. Take note. Very happy for you OP! Ohh please... respect the OP enough not to bring your personal battle against me to her post.... I don't think anyone who has had casual sex can't have a great relationship and be happy....just not with me! Sorry OP for the off topic comment but I felt I needed to answer since it was totally directed to me. Again, I am very happy things are working for you! Congrats!
Author Treasa Posted February 11, 2013 Author Posted February 11, 2013 Does he know about your interest in kink ? Oh God, yeah.
Radu Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 Oh God, yeah. But does he know what a major freak you are ?
Drseussgrrl Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 But does he know what a major freak you are ? Geez, I'm sure if they're having sex he does. Why does this matter? 1
Radu Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 Geez, I'm sure if they're having sex he does. Why does this matter? Here, take my Cheerios ... fill them up with warm, yellow liquid. Since you feel the need to stop my teasing of a girl in Cloud 9.
MidwestUSA Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 Apparently the donkey gets around a lot. Yes, but he doesn't brag, or kiss and tell. Your secrets are safe! 1
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