lovesickpuppy Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 So, I've been thinking and only have I been thinking because today my close friends told me I constantly go for guys below me rather than going for guys on the same level of attractiveness or aiming higher. What do you tend to do? Do you deliberately aim higher/lower or is it something you don't even realise you're doing? Why do you aim higher/lower? I know this is a very conceited post, but, it's interesting to hear others opinions!
Author lovesickpuppy Posted February 9, 2013 Author Posted February 9, 2013 I don't "aim" for anything. I date people I like that I find attractive. It's pretty basic. I didn't mean for you to take the word "aim" quite so literally. I meant in terms of dating, the people you find attractive are they better looking than you or...?
ltjg45 Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 Probably lower. Any female that is attractive to me is most likely already targeted by 5 other guys in the same area and I don't have the firepower to win in a head-on competition against 5 others. It's not like most women in a bar is looking for an actual serious relationship anyway.
fortyninethousand322 Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 Instead of raising or lowering them, why not move them sideways? Or maybe in a diagonal directon? 2
todreaminblue Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 So, I've been thinking and only have I been thinking because today my close friends told me I constantly go for guys below me rather than going for guys on the same level of attractiveness or aiming higher. What do you tend to do? Do you deliberately aim higher/lower or is it something you don't even realise you're doing? Why do you aim higher/lower? I know this is a very conceited post, but, it's interesting to hear others opinions! I dont do the league thing.......i love sports, i dont consider dating to be sport....when a guy asks me for a date if we have common interests i accept and see how it goes.....i rarely ask a guy on a date, I will only kamikaze myself for someone i am attracted to, I have been told that i have dated someone i will outgrow...twice to be exact......and i did......it was nothing to do with looks it was to do with intellectual capability, they didnt get me and i didnt get them, i still gave it my best shot....i dont do leagues...deb 1
ThaWholigan Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 Leagues of attractive are not my bag. There's women who I'm attracted to, and women I'm not. To be honest, standards come into it where things outside of looks are concerned. 1
candie13 Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 I would love to raise my standards all the time, but great, amazing, breath taking people are very hard to find, so I am doing my best to stick with interesting and fascinating people, the least ! Kiddin', I'd never date a guy that I don't genuinely like, even if I don't feel like I wanna rip his clothes off and bang him on the girl's bathroom 1
soccerrprp Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 I always try to raise....get to know them and then find out if I've really raised my standards or lowered....
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