zach42o1 Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 so here goes. i posted the story a week ago in another one of my threads. but anyway we broke up about 7 weeks ago over my job in the military and having to move and a few other little things. now i did all the wrong things off the bat and tried to logically show her that we could still be together. at one point she was wanting to come over and see me and was talking to me for almost a week like before we split up. then i think i just pushed it a little to far and she went cold on my i tried to ask her why and for the last 2 weeks she has been very cold. now today she agreed to talk to me and i think i just pushed to hard again. and she got very defensive and told me to give her space and that i actually haven't given her a chance to miss me at all. now im going NC with her and am just wondering if i may have pushed her to far to want to come back....
lovecutsrightthruu Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 Hi Zach, In what ways did you 'push her'?
gonefishin Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 Listen your not the first guy to take a breakup hard and go very Irrational but look it happens she will calm down and you will be stronger and clearer in a little while .. I think no contact for a little while should happen . The girl has asked for space so give her that ... And u never know what might happen but hounding her and bothering her pushes her away.. Step back and try keep busy .. It will be hard but you don't really have any other choice....
Author zach42o1 Posted February 9, 2013 Author Posted February 9, 2013 Hi Zach, In what ways did you 'push her'? buy push her i mean push her away... doing the typical trying to convince her to come back to me approach. which when you take a step back and look at yourself its rather pathetic
lovecutsrightthruu Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 yeah....often the opposite works.....the more you let go the more they wanna come back. Try that!
Author zach42o1 Posted February 9, 2013 Author Posted February 9, 2013 yeah im not holding any expectations right now...
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