inlovewithmyex Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 Hey so my ex-boyfriend and I have been broken up for 5 months. We still live together and we are very close. He still tells me he loves me and wants to marry me in the future but he is not ready for commitment and a relationship. I am 22 and he is 24 we were together for 5 years. It all happened when I left him at his party and he started talking to people and met a chick. The next two days he was distant and broke off the relationship. He went on a bender and rooted that chick then came back to reality and we started acting like a couple again for the past 4 months. We have been in and out of each others bed shared passionate sex and hes stayed in my bed for the past 8 weeks... He then went out on another bender just recently a day ago and met another chick and has been talking to her for the past 24 hours and going on google saying how to txt a chick .. u like her. It makes me feel like I want to go crazy! He went into his own bed for the first time tonight ... I know it wont work out with her because he is still emotionally attached to me... the last chick he tried turning her into a me! I want my man back in my life fully and for good just dont know how to go about it. If ive left out information please ask and ill tell kinda doing this in rage and hurt
Sav Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 It won't do you any good if this continues on. The only reason he can do this to you is because you let him to. What man doesn't want free sex and no commitments?! Stop giving him all the freebies. Let him experience truly losing you for once. He knows he still has you on a leash.
Author inlovewithmyex Posted February 9, 2013 Author Posted February 9, 2013 so should i pretend to start dating again... coz im really not up for it and i would just be dicking nice guys around
mammasita Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 You need to remove him from your life. He's obviously got his cake, cupcakes, ice cream, cake pops and eating every single bit of it all. By continuing to sleep with him you're letting him know that he can meet and sleep with whoever he wants and you will still be there waiting patiently. Eff that. Are you able to move out or have him move? That's the only answer. Don't let him sow his wild oats while you sit by watching and waiting.
Author inlovewithmyex Posted February 9, 2013 Author Posted February 9, 2013 nah we have no one to move in with and have a lease til july this year... I know he cant be serious with this chick coz he doesnt want to commit to anything... Basically I was his first and I know he wanted to experiance more chicks... he always wanted to do heaps of threesomes with me... so that is what i think it comes down to
mammasita Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 Thats pretty irrelevant though. Don't sit around waiting for him to come around and realize he wants to marry you. What if that never happens? You'll feel even worse knowing you waited for him.
Author inlovewithmyex Posted February 9, 2013 Author Posted February 9, 2013 Is there any advice tho to get hom back in the next 4 months while living together?
veggirl Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 why do you want a cheater back? why do you so badly want to be with someone who treats you this way?
Simon Phoenix Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 Move out. Stop sleeping with him. He's getting sex from you and he's getting sex from others. You are just an option for when there are no other options.
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