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last night I felt fine.. a few girls were texting me it kept me distracted.. I didn't know what my ex was upto at all so I got a little sad with it being the weekend ( we all still worry she's with someone else right? its natural)

 

but I felt like apart from that I was doing okay... and then I dreamt I was in my friends room on a blow up bed on the floor at the side of his bed playing some video games then my ex came over and was really nice to me and we snuggled and I had her back and it was awesome... and then I woke up alone realizing it's been a month since I kissed her.

 

it's like breaking no contact but not really.

 

she wants to go for coffee next week or dinner or something.. but she doesn't want a relationship right now so I don't know if it's worth going or if i'll just get heart broken....... but really I don't know if it's worth sleeping or if i'll just get heart broken haha. I feel exhausted today.

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Hey dude you are doing ok. Dreams never end... Sorry... but you holding yourself to contacting her is great. Hang in there.

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I'm 3 months into what you are dealing with. It gets better. Keep talking to those other girls, eventually you will find one that stirs some faint embers inside of you. It will remind you that you are still alive and can still move on.

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Hey dude you are doing ok. Dreams never end... Sorry... but you holding yourself to contacting her is great. Hang in there.

thanks man! I got in touch with her today to congratulate her, she seemed happy to talk to me, she asked me how my night out was and told me she was doing the same tonight.. she said she'd text me when she's free to go for dinner or something, she's going through a rough patch and said it's not fair to drag me down with her.

the dreams make things tougher.. a month in and i'm struggling we've had a lot of contact lately. I did go no contact for 3 weeks but she started contacting me loads.. it sucks though she seems eager to keep me in her life but I think as a friend.. but who knows the truth.. who knows if a few dinners.. a few nights out.. it'll be like starting over? I think seeing other girls will help me care less about her in which case i'll be less desperate and clingy and I should be fine right ? I just absolutely hate the thought of her hooking up with other people. I could never go back to her if that's the case !

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I'm 3 months into what you are dealing with. It gets better. Keep talking to those other girls, eventually you will find one that stirs some faint embers inside of you. It will remind you that you are still alive and can still move on.

thanks man! I've read a lot of your replies to other people and I feel like minded to you.. only like you said I feel you're ahead of me.. you seem to be more like me before I met this girl.. I always see logic in your replies to threads and appreciate your input on my situation! i'm going through hell.. it's weird, other girls seem interested in me but I feel bad.. I feel like i'm just using them to get over a girl I love and that it's going to be hard to replace her. i'd love to get her back.. she told me she'd love to go for dinner next week but she's going through some really rough times and she doesn't feel she's in a position to be in a relationship right now in her life. how would you take this ? she texts me a lot lately. she wants to go for dinner .. I think if I take things slow and play it cool I might get a chance.. but like I said in a previous post I don't think i'd want her back if she's done things with somebody else.. 5 days after we broke up she intended on hooking up with a guy she works with on a works partying night out.. he didn't show up.. but still . its the principle which sucks since we were together 18 months! would really appreciate a reply as I really appreciate your opinion from what I've seen around this website!

Thank you !

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