bluegreen Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 (edited) Just started dating an old flame who was in my past like few years ago and then we drifted appart he had issues and it seems there was another girl it might even be one am talking about here. We just started getting to know each other then where not exlusive or anything but liked each other well and fast forward about two months back we got back in contact by pure chance. Loved spending every moment together got along like house on fire he contacts me all the time tells all the right things and said he was falling for me I feel same way until: He gave me acces to one of his pages and in it just three weeks ago before we started talking for second time around he sent message to one of his friends of lots years he told her he felt for her more then friendship for long while. She nicely let him down he said no problem we stay friends I don't want to loose years and years we had and that was last message between them of course I felt low like a worm after reading this on one hand we had nothing when he confessed to her on another just two months and something later booom we seem to be crazy about each other. I wrote him and told him about it asked why did he not tell me anything will have to talk to him later so do I run and cut my loses do I go on and try to focus on how good we got it now or what someone please tell me ? ps: Sorry for long post but I wanted to be as clear as possible .... Edited February 9, 2013 by bluegreen to explain it better
ChessPieceFace Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 So you're going to punish him for trying to date someone else before he was dating you? Uhhh...
Author bluegreen Posted February 9, 2013 Author Posted February 9, 2013 No of course not but I realized I always cared about him more then I tought and he still might be in love with her and am just bloody rebound or something. They where like two fingers stuck together from same place same country he knows her friends she his two of them are also best friends did loads of stuff together of course am freaked out who would not be he still has her on his page and some "memories" together to. Does this make more sense
Enema Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 You're over-reacting. He said to her what he thought she wanted to hear in order to get a bang. He didn't "really" still have feelings for her. She rebuffed him, so he moved onto the next target. Told her what she wanted to hear and awesome, she took the bait. Bang incoming.
meeji Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 First of all, you shouldnt have been reading his messages. Why did you give you his passwords, I dont know. I have never done that bc if my man can't trust me then we just don't need to be together. None of this snooping around and checking my phone stuff. Technically, in a way, you invaded his privacy but he did give you access so maybe not. Either way, you could ruin what you guys have going on by flippin out over this... Don't act like he cheated on you bc he didnt. People can have feelings for someone and when it doesn't work out move on to someone else. Its old news.
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