Why Did He Send This Email. It Doesn't Mean Anything Does It? Needed

[Heartfail]

This morning I wrote a very upbeat piece on here about how strong I've been this week keeping busy, re-engaging in my world and with stuff like work, re-connecting with old friends and trying to make new ones.

 

At 5.30pm this afternoon after a day spent struggling on a work assignment which I had just completed successfully, an email from him pops up in my inbox entitled Hi.

 

He is telling me he has handed in notice on his job (when we were together he found out his company was being sold and was really worried about a new job and his future) and has just been appointed a more senior position at a cooler company for more money. He ended his email with:

 

"Starting to tell work people and a few friends but thought you should know first.

Hope you have a lovely weekend planned!

Xxx"

 

Why did he have to tell me first??? He has made it quite clear he doesn't want me back he is seeing other women and I have asked him not to come to my house to see my housemates anymore as it upsets me too much.

 

So WHY is he telling me about his wonderful new job and that I should be first to know.

 

I know it doesn't mean anything does it????

 

p.s I am not having a huge melt down my positivity still stands it just ramped up the aching void a little bit....

[pteromom]

No, he thinks he can keep the friendship part of your relationship since he's not the one with feelings.

 

DELETE and do not respond.

[Hopeful714]

Sound's like a d-bag move. Who e-mails an ex to gloat about a new job knowing your most likely in pain?

 

Who? A d-bag.

 

NC

[gonefishin]

If you asked him not to come by as that hurts then I really

Fail to see what the hell he is doing ..

And ending on have a great weekend?..

Looks to me he just lit the fuse and walked off to watch it explode...

Not cool I dont think you should reply .