GingerVixen Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Here's my story, you can read it here. His mother suffers from cancer. Today I read an article about a woman who suffers from the same type of cancer his mother does. His son made her a surprise building her a beautiful garden and she's improved a lot, medically speaking. So I sent him the link to the article and said "that made me think of your mom. I hope she's well. xoxo". He's ignored the message. He just did it. I don't really care anymore if he will talk to me or not. I'm even over the NC thing. If I want to contact him I will and I don't ****ing care if he will answer me or not. He's just another person in my life. I'll talk to him whenever I want to just like I do to any other friend, but I just can't understand why someone would ignore a message of someone wishing well to his mother. People can be absurdly immature.
Lescobar Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 I had a guy I was seeing and he would do the same thing but w What he did that was worse - when we were seeing each other still He would be so sweet one day then I would text Him the next day and he would be sarcastic And cold - I agree it's better to do what Makes u feel good obviously there's nothing to lose
gonefishin Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Sounds cruel to not even acknowledge Your message.... Maybe and we won't know Only he does maybe the breakup is raw still and he didn't think a reply would Be the end and maybe a deeper conversation This whole "breakup " logic is very confusing ... You seem very angry in your message but maybe there's a logical reason Sorry I can't be more helpful ..
Charlene78 Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 In response to the topic title. So can women. This sort of thing tends to go both ways. 1
Keenly Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 How is not responding to a link mean exactly.... what I'm reading is " how dare he not thank me or react the way I wanted him to.". If his mom has cancer let him.deal with it in his own way. Don't be nice expecting something in return 1
Simon Phoenix Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 In response to the topic title. So can women. This sort of thing tends to go both ways. Yep, meanness is not gender-specific.
pteromom Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 That you are concerned about him being "mean" by not responding says to me that you sent the link hoping to hear from him. You sent it not to just pass info on to him, but with an expectation attached. Which shows that you DO care. All normal, but this type of thing is the reason for the "NC thing". You need to let go of ALL expectations of him. He isn't and will never be who you wish he was. ((hug)) 1
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