Finally_Cracked Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Four year relationship with the same girl all throughout high school. Before leaving, she asked and I got her a ring. She was planning on telling those in college she was engaged. In hindsight I expect to hear a lot of how I should have seen it coming as we are now both freshmen in college. Anyway, 5 months ago (I have been reading these forums but never registered) she left me a guy she had met in college. She's going to a two year school, and he is leaving next year for the marines. after about 4 months of chasing (she contacted me once on my birthday but she was still showing signs of disinterest). She has received a taste of her own medicine as he had left her about a month after they started dating. She is very depressed over this, and it confuses me how our relationship meant so little to her as opposed to the misery she is now undergoing over a guy she only knew for two months and dated for one. I'm not much of a talker, but I figured I'd share my story and keep those up to date. Thank you LS for your advice that I have read over and over these past months, I figured its' time I joined!
GingerVixen Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 I'm really sorry for you. I'm sure you're confused and trying to understand her attitude. I'd be confused as well. I am right now. Why would she care about that guy and not about you? Well some girls are just idiots. Some of them don't have maturity enough to enjoy a fulfilling relationship. Maybe she's one of these stupid girls who enjoy "impossible relationships"such as falling in love with a marine who's going to war, this kind of thing. And they're the ones who despise what's in reach. Don't worry, my friend. They're plenty of girls out there who would like to meet a guy honest like you. Don't let this unfortunate happening change who you are.
Author Finally_Cracked Posted February 19, 2013 Author Posted February 19, 2013 Update: Recently, although I know I shouldn't we talked two days after my birthday. (Jan 26) I heard some news about her college and decided to congratulate her (her softball team is expected to play very well and she made captain). She thanked me, and was very short in her replies. I took it as she wasn't interested. Then, about a week later (throughout this entire month of Feb) she has been posting statuses such as 'stupid.stupid girl' 'you don't know what you do to me' 'I know the past is the past for a reason but i can't let it go'. The thing is, I really want to believe this is about me, as we were together for four years but I can't help but believing it is about the guy she dated for 2 months. For all I know, it might be a combination as this is the first time she has ever really been single. I just don't know what I should believe yet. I haven't contacted her since that day which is the longest I've gone NC (3 weeks) and feeling it out but I don't know what to think yet.
Chi townD Posted February 19, 2013 Posted February 19, 2013 two things..... 1.) Always assume that it isn't about you because 9 times out of 10...it isn't. and 2.) STOP LOOKING AT HER FACEBOOK!!!!!!!!
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