LittleTiger Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 My guy and I met online. We hit it off from email number one and sent several emails daily to each other from day one onwards. We were emailing, texting and skyping repeatedly every day before we even met. There was nothing clingy or obsessive about it, we just hit it off - big time! My parents went on their first date and got along so well they saw each other every day until they got married (no texting in those days). Other than a few hospital stays they've never been apart in over 50 years. It all boils down to chemistry. When it's there you can't get enough of someone so the term 'clingy' doesn't apply. FTR I think it's very rude to ignore someone. At least have the decency and maturity to let him know you're not interested. What on earth has happened to good manners these days?
Sabian Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 (edited) I know I'm late to this thread, but...holy crap the OP is insane. Are you really annoyed by it, or do you just think you should be annoyed because that's what people on reality shows say? "Wait three days to talk again." "Clingy guys suck." etc. If texting a girl a few times the day after a first date is bad, I'm ****ed. Why wouldn't I want to talk to a girl who I like and had a good time with, and why the hell wouldn't she want to talk to me if she felt the same. I think so many people get caught up in the politics of dating and adhering to the popular myths of it that they don't just use their feelings. Even if he is clingy, if you like him, who cares? You don't like him. If you do....god help me and my fellow man because apparently conversation is now off the table when it comes to attracting women...I'm not sure what we have left.. I have a girl that I'm interested in now and we text back and forth all day every day. Probably 50 texts a day between us easily. Sometimes I'll send her 2 or 3 in a row just talking about my day. She always replies when she gets back and we go out all the time. If I went out with a girl and the next day she texted me 20 times I would be flattered. I'd love it. Edited February 11, 2013 by Sabian
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