thewho83 Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Well, my gf and i of 3 1/2 years broke up about a few weeks ago. We started dating when I was still living at my parents house and eventually we moved in together. After a year, we decide to move 3 hours away. She bought a house, moved, and I moved a couple months later. Well since we moved, we have had our breaking points and it seems like she wanted to break up every 2 months or so since the move. I got depressed when we moved, but eventually found new friends. She didn't really get too involved with finding new friends. Every couple weeks we were going back home to visit with friends/family for birthday parties. It doesn't even seem like we lived here, but only out of a suitcase. She is looking for this fairytale relationship where both of them just "click" in every way. I have ADD and suffer from anxiety. Alot of our problems was missed communication and maybe perhaps after this time we just grew apart? I never lived on my own and she has alot of trust issues for some reason or another. I didn't like when she was gone since I have a hard time living by myself. Now, my stuff is at her house and I'm living with a good friend for the time being. I think she's going to sell her house and I'll get an apartment. After 3 weeks of being broken up, she's still trying to talk to me saying she "misses me being there" and if I miss her/don't miss her/ or never miss her. I guess I'm having mixed signals. She always said I'm not the man she wants me to be. She also said when we broke up "I don't hate you, but I don't see you as a future spouse". She seems like she has always had her doubts, but the past year has just been really difficult on both of us living in a new place. Maybe after 3 weeks she's coming to terms that she really does want to be with me? What do you think?
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