nineyearsgone79 Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Hey Guys, My bf's company is sending him to vegas for a conference for 2 days. He a few months back told me he wanted me to go and we could stay a few extra days (around a week).. and turn it into a vacation. At the time my work was very slow (I work for myself).. i told him i couldn't go because no work etc. He told me "don't worry about it" and a few times I said I couldn't go he'd say "I'll take care of it don't worry about it." Anyway, fast forward to a month and a half before the trip. He told me I should book my airline ticket. I said what? .. He said now is the best time that it should be around 400 dollars or so. I've gotten some work since then but not much maybe around 1500 a month so not really any position to go on a trip and my insurance bills just came due. Anyway, i told him "i thought you said don't worry about it".. he said "yah i did .. it's only 6 days don't worry about it." I told him i thought he had offered to take me.. he said he was going to cover the hotel but not my ticket. Anyway.. what should i do now. He's all upset because he said " we had this planned for a while.".. when in fact i thought he had this planned out. I didn't even really want to go to vegas but since he wanted me to come along and was bringing me i thought i'd go. We've been dating since April 2010 and i'm 33 (almost 34) and he's 31. Help? What should i do? Thanks!
Ladybugz Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 if his company is sending him to vegas i guess he earn a lot of cash but he is a cheap bastard, i would really dumb this clown. cause you will have more issues in vegas . cause you dont have much money so he can make it difficult for you since he dont even keep his word. i think he just want to use you for your companionship so he can have some fun after work. and he said he would pay just for you to say yes. im afraid he may not pay for the hotel also and think you will pay for it to since you are already there and dont want to sleep on the street in such a strange country. break up. he is a loser! you cant build something with that men.
Ladybugz Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 do your work make your money , save money and go with your freinds t vegas if you want to one day. this dude is standing in your way to make your money to. and he have notting better to offer you
mammasita Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 This sounds like a huge breakdown in communication. He didnt say exactly what he meant and you didn't ask the right questions to know what he meant.
normal person Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 This sounds like a huge breakdown in communication. He didnt say exactly what he meant and you didn't ask the right questions to know what he meant. This. When he said "don't worry about it," you thought he meant "I'll pay for it." What he really meant was "don't worry about it until you have to buy the ticket." Sounds pretty lame, when I say "don't worry about it," it's implying that I'm paying. I thought that was pretty universal. 'Not your fault at all. This guy knows you don't have the money but still expects you to go after lying to you? What'd he think was going to happen?
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