galv Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Long story short, my ex waited for me for over a year while I was with someone else. I thought about her everyday regardless. I broke up with the other girl, and we started talking, but she didn't realize I wanted us to be together again when I was ready. It took me about a month and a half to get my head straight from the last relationship, went to see her, and turns out unbeknownst to me she had a new boyfriend for about a week at that point. I emailed her telling her how I felt, and she said that she wasn't going to leave the new guy. I don't really blame her as she put me in pretty much the same position when I started dating the other girl, and nobody would leave a relationship in the honeymoon stages. We have all the same friends and her, her new boyfriend, and I were all at the same superbowl party. She flirted with me like crazy all night (wasn't just me, our other friends who didn't know we still had feelings for each other thought she was incredibly overly friendly with me in a completely inappropriate manor). She would also gaze into my eyes lovingly for like 10 seconds at a time, I know her b/f noticed this because I saw him looking out of my peripherals. So, here is my question. Am I better off just avoiding them and trying to NC (more like limited contact since she keeps contacting me and I can't just ignore her), or should I make a point to be at the same places as them (doesn't come across as suspicious since all my other friends will be there) and let him see her continuously acting this way towards me? I guess I should note that my end goal is to have them breakup so that we can reconnect like we were supposed to before she gave up hope that I even wanted to be with her. So, with that in mind, what is my best option here? Thanks, Galv
Author galv Posted February 9, 2013 Author Posted February 9, 2013 Any advice is welcome, I have no clue what to do
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