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Girl I'm dating has "a lover" overseas


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I already know she is not interested in relationships right now... since she doesn't know where she's gonna be in 4-5 months, when she graduates from grad school.

 

You could still talk to her and give her the chance to have her say this time around.

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You could still talk to her and give her the chance to have her say this time around.

 

What will that accomplish. I know how things are.... That would just reinforce her that she already has me and therefore her attraction to me would decline.

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What will that accomplish. I know how things are.... That would just reinforce her that she already has me and therefore her attraction to me would decline.

 

Ok in that case good luck with whatever it is that you decide to do or not do.

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Ok in that case good luck with whatever it is that you decide to do or not do.

 

Lol thanks. I know Im stubborn sometimes. I feel like she just wants to play the field for now and have fun.

 

I will probably have a talk with her about if I'm her priority or not in a few weeks. And then will take it from there.

 

Cheers and thanks

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But it's not like "I am looking for a relationship" myself either. (I am sleeping with someone else on the side too). Never been in one. I am kind of taking my time and thinking what would be if I were to actually get in one.

and I just like this girl lots and I find myself being very attracted to her.

 

Ugh... the only reason you care is because she seems to be into somebody else. Just pick one girl and make a go of it.

 

You clearly need relationship practice... so go find a real date. Fuc*buddies are for losers.

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