Not really sure what is going on in her head

[Chickdan]

Sorry for the lengthiness.

 

So I have been talking to a girl for a few months now, we went to high school together and currently attend the same university. Over the summer (after we both went through a break up) she told me she used to have a crush on me that started in junior high and lasted through part of high school, a few weeks later she told me she valued our friendship too much to attempt having a romantic relationship (which came completely out of the blue when we were not talking about anything remotely close to dating). The weird thing is every time she hangs out with my friends and I, she tells them about said crush (if she hasn't already).

 

Now here is where things get dicey, over winter break we were hanging out at her apartment and decided to drink a little, it was just the two of us. After becoming drunk, she started spilling her guts and telling me how amazing I am and how lucky any girl would be to date me. After about 3 hours of this she told me that I should never be "friend-zoned," followed by an apology for doing so herself. Becoming tired we fell over on the floor and cuddled for what could have been an hour, then things became a little more intimate.

 

She talked to her best friend about the night but left out the raunchy details, except for kissing. We often joke about parts of that night but every time it comes into conversation she claims she doesn't remember very much of it. Since then she has become much more flirtatious, but at the same time stresses we won't be more than friends. We do flirt a lot and hang out as often as possible when we have a break from our crazy schedules.

 

To wrap things up... She talks about what she claims to be an old crush, frequently, with MY friends. After getting drunk, she has been sending many mixed signals. I have had feelings for her from the beginning of the friendship but thought she would never date me. Now I am confused and need outside input.

Edited February 8, 2013 by Chickdan

[WhatYouWantToHear]

This forum won't allow me to use the correct medical term for this girl, so I am forced to use the term "weiner-tease". And like most weiner-teasees you are allowing it. Don't fall for her weiner-teasing or allow her to do it. Lay it on the line, tell her the relationship you want with her and tell her you will not accept anything less, especially what she's doing now.

[Chickdan]

Thanks for the input, most of my friends have told me to just ask her what is really going on. She invited me over to her place for Valentine's Day, so I guess I'll find out her full intentions that evening.