kristineyvette Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Hi Guys! I'm in LDR for almost 7 mos now he lives far away from me but he managed to come and visit me once last October. And he has plan visiting me again in July. We've already talk about future plans like moving in his place and getting married until last 2 weeks ago a girl (as far as I know one of my bf ex ) wrote me on fb telling that she and my bf have been together for 4 months and she also sent me their pic (kissing). At first I was in denial that the pic she sent me was an old pic cause my bf looked thin. I asked my bf and he said it was an old pic and his ex was just trying to ruin our relationship. So I ignored it and I chose to believe my bf cause I love him. After 2 days his ex wrote me again telling me that she was sorry about her rudeness last night that my bf is not a bad guy he just make bad decisions. I was puzzled on that message but I never replied. My bf and I are still okay until last weekend he was strange, he deleted his fb and we didn't text often like we used to do before so i asked him if he still in love w/me and he said yes but I feel like he love me less and he totally changed in just 2 weeks . What I am gonna do? Is it possible that my bf and his ex are still together and just trying to hide it from me? Thanks! Yvette
AngrySpider Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 Hi Guys! I'm in LDR for almost 7 mos now he lives far away from me but he managed to come and visit me once last October. And he has plan visiting me again in July. We've already talk about future plans like moving in his place and getting married until last 2 weeks ago a girl (as far as I know one of my bf ex ) wrote me on fb telling that she and my bf have been together for 4 months and she also sent me their pic (kissing). At first I was in denial that the pic she sent me was an old pic cause my bf looked thin. I asked my bf and he said it was an old pic and his ex was just trying to ruin our relationship. So I ignored it and I chose to believe my bf cause I love him. After 2 days his ex wrote me again telling me that she was sorry about her rudeness last night that my bf is not a bad guy he just make bad decisions. I was puzzled on that message but I never replied. My bf and I are still okay until last weekend he was strange, he deleted his fb and we didn't text often like we used to do before so i asked him if he still in love w/me and he said yes but I feel like he love me less and he totally changed in just 2 weeks . What I am gonna do? Is it possible that my bf and his ex are still together and just trying to hide it from me? Thanks! Yvette Hi Yes,it may be possible that your boyfriend and his ex are perhaps a little too close.However,it is also possible that they're not.LDR's are exceptionally difficult because one can't say for certain whether their other half is up to no good or not (unless someone confesses to indiscretions).It would be much easier to see what they're all about and whether there are either subtle or very visible changes in everything from their behavior to their routines. There's almost an irony nowadays that even photographs themselves don't always offer picture proof.Not with such handy-dandy things like PhotoShop.And it could have very well been an older photograph that this guy's ex had furnished as her "evidence." It's no secret that some exes get jealous when a previous partner moves on to someone else to the point of intentionally trying to sabotage the relationship.That being said,one must consider the source. 2
veggirl Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 VERY possible. how did his ex even know about you? he is still in contact with an ex? 1
Asda Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 Sounds very strange, looks like he does, probably he is seeing her behind your back. 1
Ladybugz Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 how old are you? in a real relationship people have already hard times. so by wanting ti make a commitment to someone you barely know and see ,you are asking to much of yourself and you also want to marry him? start dating local someone you see and experience regularly and stop calling every little feeling love, you barely know each other. love is something that can grow during years of experiencing each other. move on, get real. 1
Author kristineyvette Posted February 11, 2013 Author Posted February 11, 2013 Thanks you guys for all your response.. @VEGGIRL - my bf (who happened to be my ex now) and his ex are friends on fb, she got to read some of my messages on his phone (that what's she told me on one of her messages to me) @LADYBUGZ - I'm 25, yeah I am planning to marry him but I guess it won't happen anymore..I'm on 2 days NC with him. You are right I need to get real but I'm missing him.
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