april38 Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Question... I've been seeing a guy for over a month, and its been going great. we talked for an hour last night, and asked if he could see me this weekend, and I said yes, and we talked about getting together Friday night, and he wasn't sure about his schedule, and was going to coordinate his plans, and I asked him to tell me by tonight if he wanted to get together Friday, and he said he will definitely contact me tonight and plan the weekend. Well its late night and I still haven't heard from him. We texted a couple of sweet messages this morning, but no call or message regarding tomorrow. What should I think? I'm honestly disappointed that he hasn't followed through with his word. Guys, is he playing games? Is it suddenly not that important to him to get together with me tomorrow? I just don't understand his sudden lack of follow through....the only thing I can think of is that I didn't send a response to his text this morning, but I didn't feel it needed a response, it was just cute and funny...confused. Should I message him something?
Author april38 Posted February 8, 2013 Author Posted February 8, 2013 Sorry, was supposed to say guys what do you think? .....damn auto correct.
ls32ssibm Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 If it were me I probably wouldn't be that interested to do that. Or, I felt you yourself weren't interested so I put the ball in your court. So act accordingly.
Archgirl Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 How is he usually about making plans? I mean is this atypical?
Feelin Frisky Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Ug, text neurosis. Sorry, nothing personal. It's just that this is such a prevalent phenomenon that people ask about here it needs to called something. I'm with you though, I just have very little tolerance or use for anyone who doesn't MAKE the damn time to keep their word because they should surely know your whole agenda and mood hinges on it. Ahem (never mind). But with text come expectations and it's hard to say if having this technology is making us unable to cope with the lapses in communication that people have endured in romances for time immemorial. Try not to be upset and don't just text. Call him up and gently imply a raging WTF? Hopefully there will be an acceptable reason why you weren't shown the decency and courtesy a budding love interest deserves. Best wishes.
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