brookebb Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 last week was my first day of class in college.. i am a transfer student so no one knows me so this has nothing to do with my past.. plus i am an innocent, classy girl.. i got to class early so i can get a seat in the front.. i picked the 2nd row.. there were only around 20 other students in the class because the class wasnt starting for another 15 mins.. the class fits at least 200 students so there were MANY empty seats.. this guy walks in and sits RIGHT NEXT TO me.. i dont know who he is and he doesnt know me.. the chair right next to me.. he doesnt say anything.. we are both doing our own thing like getting our books ready or whatever.. i see my 2 girl friends come in so i talk to them and say hi.. finally, before the class starts he makes conversation.. ever since then hes been sitting next to me.. i dont think hes flirting.. he doesnt come off that way.. hes just nice and sociable i guess.. however, last class he seemed to be a tiny bit flirty.. randomly i looked down and it looked like he had a *****.. i dont think he wanted me to notice.. i dont think he knows i noticed it.. the last few minutes of class he writes something in his notebook and nudges me so i can read it.. it says.. "are you getting pins and needles?".. i dont know what he meant by that.. is it because i was kind of shaking my leg because i was getting antsy since the class was boring? or did he mean it sexually? i dont even know if thats a sexual term.. anyways, i smiled and shook my head.. i didnt know what to say.. he has never asked me for my number or to hang out outside of class.. i dont know what he wants or why he would sit next to me without even knowing me the first day of class when there were plenty of seats open and everyone was scattered.. do you think hes into me? and what did he mean by pins and needles? also, i dont know why he got a ***** because i dont wear anything revealing.. at least he covered his ***** throughout the class.
Feelin Frisky Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Hi and welcome to LS. He was probably trying to engage you in dialogue because you were moving like people do when their leg goes to sleep. You'll probably have to give him the benefit of the doubt on that account. But other than that he doesn't get automatic benefits of the doubt. I would see him as "crowding" you by sitting so close when there's so much choice. As for the hard on, men can get erections for no reason--I used to get them in church whenever it came time to kneel. Kneeling is a natural sex position and having your pants pressed against you down there can cause a young fella to just go whoops. But the combination of him having a hard-on and trying to make conversation in class leans a little aggressive--not necessarily bad unless you are repelled by his visage. I would say it appears there was no mistake or randomness to his choice of seats, however. Maybe he's a nice guy, maybe he's not but it seems he did a quick scan, saw you as attractive and decided immediately to act. Action is a good sign compared to those who fret and belabor things and fail to act. But it's impossible to say at this point if he's benevolent or malevolent in nature. He's just executive. It's in your court to blow him off or invite him into your social graces. Take it slow if you want a personal opinion. If he's a decent guy he'll be patient. If he's anan aggressive social ass, you'll see another hard-on very soon and a lurch to talk about absolutely anything. 1
Archgirl Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Were you sitting alone? And you look innocent you say? First week of college...and the whole trouser-tent issue - snap judgment:he's a predator and you looked like vulnerable prey.
Talak7 Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 OOOO Pins and Needles.... Let's see...now if I know my rock and mother f-ing rolll..... That's Alice Cooper's "Poison" "I hear you calling and it's needles and pins (and pins) I want to hurt you just to hear you screaming my name Don't want to touch you but you're under my skin (deep in) I want to taste you but your lips are venomous poison" I honestly do think this is what he was saying...CLASSIC!
Author brookebb Posted February 8, 2013 Author Posted February 8, 2013 i wouldn't say i look innocent. I meant that i do not look slutty/easy. I look upper class and put together. I am also pretty. I don't think I look vulnerable. Everyone was sitting alone. What does he mean by pins and needles? If he did not mean anything rude by it, I would definitely give him a chance.
PogoStick Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Ask if he wants to come *cough* study for your anatomy class. And don't lie, you ogled his package on purpose.
callingyouuu Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 do you think hes into me? and what did he mean by pins and needles? 1. Yes. 2. Either he's asking whether you're feeling anxious or you just experienced the worst pickup maneuver ever. More likely the first. 1
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