Archgirl Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 No he was gentle in other ways, wanted to hold my hand a lot, hold me when watching tv and very thoughtful. In the end th
Archgirl Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Argh! Sorry: In the end I couldn't stand him even touching me, I think kissing is almost like taste testing for chemistry! So I think you're right they're two different things. But like Rocketman said, it does tell you what they're like as a lover.
LadyChatterley Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 I think it depends on the person. I really liked the way the only person I've kissed did it, and I've actually requested that he lick my my whole face. I just like it really sloppy and his mouth all over my face because he was adorable to me. I know the majority don't like that though..but we'd also have the longer, cleaner kisses that you get lost in with your tongues. He would kinda suck on my neck and face, but we also did that like one day after meeting because we were that drawn to each other I guess, so it just felt right. But it didn't start out like that. I was inexperienced, so he had to teach me, and we found our way, which is okay. And with the stubble...I guess that's a common turn off to, but I liked it because it just made me feel more girly and like I was touching a guy. Also the sucking of the lip was normal with us. I also licked his teeth and he licked mine lol. I guess in the moment, you just want to be inside that person so much and feel every part of them. And about the noise, if he was turned on then it may not have been on purpose. It just came out. I liked how the guy I did it with would kind of moan if he was turned on or breathe. So yeah..everyone's different. It helps that he had a nice, deep voice. Try to discuss it with him I suppose. Find out what you like and what he likes and work at it. I don't believe in the spark at first kiss thing.
rocketman122 Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 I see where you're coming from, but here's the problem: Me, in my inexperience, pretty much adapted myself to fit him. I kept up the pace, and sorta mirrored what he was doing. I didn't want him to think I was being unenthusiastic or something. I was just too nervous to try to alter the course. (I guess you could argue that if he was REALLY perceptive, he would've seen that I was just keeping up, but maybe I did a good enough job too fool him?) I'm 23 (almost 24) and he's 24. You mention the age of 30 as a cutoff. May I ask how you assessed people's abilities back in your early 20's? I don't really agree with the "you have it or you don't" mentality, since just about every aspect of life I've EVER seen that applied to, has ended up being proven wrong. I was always a very sensual and sexually open person and to feel a womans lips on mine did and does something very special to me.its very erotic to me. it shouldnt be calculated and u shouldnt put thought to kissing. I close my eyes and feel. I didnt assess when I was younger but simply how I felt when they kissed me. I am very attentive and I always want to please my partner and im always in tune to her needs but that has always been in me. I can even not cum in a love making session if I want. all I care is about pleasing my partner, making my partner happy. but this is something that has to be in you. when I was younger, I didnt know what was good or bad but it how it feels. but I think you either have it or dont. you can be better but if you constantly take you can never be a great lover and also a guy who doesnt love (cant wait to smell and lick her from her ass to clit) to cunnilingus can never be a great lover. never.
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