Keenly Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 I came home from work today and I had to use the bathroom quite badly. I noticed I was out of toilet paper (luckily before the business began lol ) so I went to wal mart nearby. As soon as I walked through those sliding doors I could feel her presence. I knew she was in that store even though I had not seen her or her car yet. Went to the back of the store , grabbed some TP, went back to the front. That's when I saw her. All I saw was her hair covering her face at a 90 degree angle to me facing her, and I knew it was her. I quickly hid down an aisle for a few minutes while I waited for her to check out and leave. I am actually surprised I was able to feel her before I saw her.... Do you guys usually duck out if you see your ex in public? 1
Simon Phoenix Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 I talked about this in another thread, but I had an incident like this a couple weeks after we broke. I was enjoying a lazy Friday off along the beach, walking the pier, sitting out in the sun, just chillin. I came back to put more money in my meter in the garage that I parked at. I'm walking up the stairs to the second level (my car was on third) and I saw her at the meter on that floor putting in money. Needless to say, my heart started racing. It's about 10-15 feet from the stairs to the meter so I had two choices a) stay on the stairs and have to run into her or b) run up the stairs real quick to the third level and hope she didn't see me. I chose b and went to the third level, stayed up there a few minutes. I thought about leaving right then and there, but I decided I needed a drink after this near-miss. So I stayed up there a few minutes until I was sure she had left the garage and put some more money in. I walked around the main pier area where there's a bunch of bars, trying to figure out a bar I could go to that I wouldn't see her at. This area was an area her and I hung out at frequently, so this was tough. Finally I pick this bar her and I had never gone to, thinking I was safe. I went in, walked to the bar, sat down, and got a drink. Then another. The bar I was at had a clear view of people walking to and from the bathroom. And as I was starting on my second drink, I saw a couple of my ex's coworkers walking toward me from the bathroom. At this point I was like "F--k!" because I knew she was in the bar somewhere. I finished my beer quickly, not looking anywhere but straight at the bar, then walked out of the place looking straight ahead so I didn't have to make eye contact with her from wherever she was. As I left the place I looked back inside through the window and saw her sitting against it, facing the bar I was sitting at. So for all I know, she was sitting there looking at me the entire time. Luckily she moved to a different area (20-25 minutes from me instead of 5-10) so I can pretty much avoid anything like that, though at this point it wouldn't nearly affect me as much.
fancy feast Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Next time, grab a Lionel Richie album and a box of condoms. Hold your head up high. Give the cashier a high five. Walk out of there like a boss. 3
Sugarkane Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Next time, grab a Lionel Richie album and a box of condoms. Hold your head up high. Give the cashier a high five. Walk out of there like a boss. I agree fake it, till you make it, as they say. 1
mike588 Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 I came home from work today and I had to use the bathroom quite badly. I noticed I was out of toilet paper (luckily before the business began lol ) so I went to wal mart nearby. As soon as I walked through those sliding doors I could feel her presence. I knew she was in that store even though I had not seen her or her car yet. Went to the back of the store , grabbed some TP, went back to the front. That's when I saw her. All I saw was her hair covering her face at a 90 degree angle to me facing her, and I knew it was her. I quickly hid down an aisle for a few minutes while I waited for her to check out and leave. I am actually surprised I was able to feel her before I saw her.... Do you guys usually duck out if you see your ex in public? After my g/f dumped me for her ex. I didn't want to see her anywhere...it would just hurt to much. It's been over a year now and I'm completely over her... Funny I saw my ex. at a Wal-mart several weeks ago at a distance and she noticed me too...I waved to her and she waved back. Several days later we exchanged e-mails and are working at being friends again (we were friends many years ago before dating) Friends only!!! I've forgiven her ....I'm dating someone else now and have moved on.
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