aal763 Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Ok so there is this girl in my Air Traffic Control Club in college. I really like her. For the past few months, we have gotten really close. We talk all the time. She flirts with me quite often. And I even go out of my way to impress her. For example, she was sick once and wasn't able to bring home everybody's work shirt, so I took them back with me and washed them for her. She was really impressed. The only problem is, she has a boyfriend now. However, I feel like she has gotten even closer to me now that she has this boyfriend. Anyways, we'll be going to Vegas together with the club this March for a convention(her bf won't be coming). I learned that there is a masquerade ball we will be attending at the beginning of the convention. I was just wondering as to whether or not I should ask her to slow dance and maybe, if she's into it, give her a small kiss? Would this be out of line?
Sun Devil Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Maybe you should learn how to sabotage their relationship. Google it, there are some tips you can use 1
Keenly Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Pretend she was your girlfriend.... would you want her to honor that title with you? Then respect it. 1
Author aal763 Posted February 8, 2013 Author Posted February 8, 2013 Maybe not kiss her, I'd never want to help her cheat on someone. I just want her to know that I care about her without actually saying it.
TaraMaiden Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Maybe not kiss her, I'd never want to help her cheat on someone. I just want her to know that I care about her without actually saying it. Hi... Look, I'm sorry,m but we've heard this kind of thing already... You're not the first to find yourself in this situation, and I promise you you won't be the last. So I'll cut to the chase and tell you - what we've already told them. It's Bullschytt. "You'd never want to help her cheat? The fact that you're thinking of 'moving in on her' already denotes that that's precisely what you'll be doing! And all this 'care about her' schmaltz....? Puh-leeze..... So, say she reciprocates....? Remember what they say.... take this to the nth degree. Say you score a success. Say she goes out with you.... If she will cheat WITH you, she will cheat ON you. Think about that for a second, ok? And calm those big-boy hormones of yours.....
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