21heartless Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 My girlfriend recently broke up with me on SUnday/Monday morning. It was heated. My last message to her was sorry n I would do anything to make our relationship work meaning counceling therapy etc that same day.. We haven't spoken since. NC She was my best friend and I hurt her (not physically). Even though our relationship wasnt perfect she didnt deserve it. I made a mistake that'd ill never do again. I love her and want her back eventually after I make drastic changes for myself and our relationship. I know there is a possibly ill never get her back and ill force myself to live with that. But my question is Valentines day is coming up should I send flowers to her job?? We were still in love when we broke up of course I am still and she most likely is too... I need to know would it help me get her back or make her more upset with me? I was just going to show her I love her by doing it but if if helps her come back to me that's a plus.
TaraMaiden Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Oooh.. Do we have a 'hear what I want to hear merchant here....? (All times are GMT UK times, but you'll get the point.....) 10.06pm you post this: ....I might just start a thread see if the ladies think its a good idea to send flowers to a recent ex. several immediate and resounding responses tell you NO!!! You reply at 10.45, with this.... Ok I guess it's a bad idea lol 2-0... Can I ask what's so bad about it just curious? we haven't even talked since the breakup. ...yet in the meantime, you post this thread at 10.25. So let me repeat what I put in the other thread (with above posts): Don't you think it will have a more sobering effect on her when she realises that actually, she ain't gettin' nuthin'.....? When people tell you something here, they're usually right. Trust us. Believe us. It's for your own good.... Divasu you need to check OP's posting history. It don't make for pretty reading, but to his credit, he admits it......
Divasu Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Divasu you need to check OP's posting history. It don't make for pretty reading, but to his credit, he admits it...... Crap! I keep forgetting to do that before I post. OP, you have a history of cheating. May want to work on that first. Good luck.
Author 21heartless Posted February 8, 2013 Author Posted February 8, 2013 Oooh.. Do we have a 'hear what I want to hear merchant here....? (All times are GMT UK times, but you'll get the point.....) 10.06pm you post this: several immediate and resounding responses tell you NO!!! You reply at 10.45, with this.... ...yet in the meantime, you post this thread at 10.25. So let me repeat what I put in the other thread (with above posts): When people tell you something here, they're usually right. Trust us. Believe us. It's for your own good.... Divasu you need to check OP's posting history. It don't make for pretty reading, but to his credit, he admits it...... Im still new so i dont really know how to work this but The thread came before I had seen the answers sorry for your misunderstanding.
TaraMaiden Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 I forgive you my child. But with my reputation you really don't want to pi$$ me off....... (I'm kidding.... whaddamI, ya mother.....? )
AlexfromBoston Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 My girlfriend recently broke up with me on SUnday/Monday morning. It was heated. My last message to her was sorry n I would do anything to make our relationship work meaning counceling therapy etc that same day.. We haven't spoken since. NC She was my best friend and I hurt her (not physically). Even though our relationship wasnt perfect she didnt deserve it. I made a mistake that'd ill never do again. I love her and want her back eventually after I make drastic changes for myself and our relationship. I know there is a possibly ill never get her back and ill force myself to live with that. But my question is Valentines day is coming up should I send flowers to her job?? We were still in love when we broke up of course I am still and she most likely is too... I need to know would it help me get her back or make her more upset with me? I was just going to show her I love her by doing it but if if helps her come back to me that's a plus. I disagree with what others have said and I think that maybe you could drop off a card and maybe flowers to her residence(NOT work) on V-day. Maybe include a nice little note in the card, thanking her for all the good memories and wish her luck on all her future endeavors. Don't plead for her back, don't ask questions in the letter and DO NOT sound too sappy in your brief narrative. Just a simple thank you card and let her know that you still wanted to do something for her on V-day. A three dollar card is not going to impact your wallet and it's a small gesture to show her that you are handling the breakup in a mature manner. Obviously, if this is too painful for you, then maintain NC and move on.
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