cali1 Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 Here's my situation: Married my high school sweetheart, were together 8 years, married for 2 of these years, no kids. We divorced a year ago when she left me while I was working for 6 weeks back East. Went through an ugly divorce and she ended up marrying a guy from her work who is 17 years older than her (she's 26, I'm 27) about 4 months after we officially divorced. She never admitted to cheating but through solid rumors and the quick re-marriage I beg to differ...Needless to say, we cut off contact and I spend last year coping, growing, moving on, etc. About 4 months ago, she tries adding me as a 'friend' to social media websites, which I quickly denied. Then 3 weeks ago, she sends me a text saying "I miss you." Through friends and family I have heard she's up and down with her emotions and I'm now trying to decide whether to write back or just say forget it. Clear common sense says to forget it and not respond. But considering how long we've known eachother, what we've been through, emotions, & our young age, I'm very curious to see what she misses. So I'm considering responding with 'what do you miss' or a simple 'thank you.' More than likely, she felt lonely for a split second or would respond with some bs comment like 'our friendship.' At this point I'm not trying to get her back nor do I thrive off drama but my curiosity side is coming out and would like to get other peoples thoughts/opinions on responding to that text message. Thanks!
WhatYouWantToHear Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 Thinking purely of my own entertainment, I highly recommend texting her back and posting back here what comes of it. Of course you already know what the right thing to do is.
Mr. Lucky Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 So I'm considering responding with 'what do you miss' or a simple 'thank you.' Can't help but wonder what you'd hope to accomplish by this ??? If your goal is to break up her current marriage (as her H probably helped destroy yours), move past her cheating on you and get back together with her then by all means text her back. Anything other than that stated purpose, I'd let it go. Continue the progress you've made coping and moving on... Mr. Lucky
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