AnnaBananaObama Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 Well i'm with my boyfriend just nearly 2 years now and I Truly do love him. The reason i'm asking this is because he is working now the past year or maybe a little more in a supermarket and well.. other girls!, but anyways I finished with him the start of December because he constantly had me in the background as he started to get on with the other workers, they went out and did something random and fun during the week (more than once) and nights out and what not and not once was I asked till i asked "how come i'm not being asked" i have often asked him to do stuff like a day out with me which never happens:/. Anyways a girl he works with he has become very "close" with her, he called me by her name and other stuff like that and then i confronted him about it all but he made me feel like S**T and turned it on me so then that's when i ended it. (while we weren't together he also met a different girl from him job) But then less than a month after-wards we got back together and for 2/3 weeks he was really trying hard and we were getting on great, nothing about anyone in work which was great!. But that didn't last very long as him and this girl was all his Facebook was about, pictures, status, lunch together and to top it off they work in the same section of the shop same hours, days etc.. But just last week i came out with everything about this to him, told him how i felt about everything and that like i need respect from him and he needs to stop making me feel i'm only there when he feels like he wants me to be, which he said yeah he will because he loves me, i'm the only one he want etc.. But just there Friday he was bringing a mate from work on a driving lesson (male) and his girlfriend went to which i can understand but the one he's very close to and the one he met also went and they went out for food and what not and yet again wasn't asked but the fact was he seen how upset i was last week when we talked about it and for him to just do that hurt me, i tried telling him that but he just became a major D**K about the matter "there just my friends" but he thought about having them around him rather than how his girlfriend felt! I again out of anger ended it to which i regretted straight away, i gave myself a few hours to think it through and realized what i did and had to text him told him i'm sorry about it but right now I dunno if i should try or let it go???? PLEASE i'm actually needing for some advice:(
Toddbt12y1 Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 He is disrespectful towards you. Well, neglectful of your feelings. He shouldn't be constantly out with other women -- and not you. He could be cheating. He could not. Eitherway, why do you wanna be with someone so disrespectful and neglectful of your needs as his gf? It didn't work twice already. It won't again. He hasn't changed. Have self-respect. Find someone who will want to take you out and be around you. When someone loves you they will want to be around you. He hardly is.
GingerVixen Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 You know, some men like to test us. When we ask them to give us attention, to care about us, they feel loved and their ego is boosted. Whenever you would say "oh please take me together to have lunch with your friends" he would feel like the king of the world. Maybe your strategy should be different: stop begging and when he goes out with his friends, show independence and go out with your friends too. He'll be puzzled sometimes. BUT THAT THING YOU SHOULD DO WITH ANOTHER GUY. NOT WITH HIM. YOU SHOULD DUMP THIS ONE. He's clearly shown that he doesn't give a damn about your feelings. And don't feel bad because trust me, he'll do that to whoever he dates. It's not your problem, it's his , yeah, it's his selfishness. Look at your own life and ask yourself: if you keep dating this guy... what's the top goal of any relationship according to most women? Getting married. Would you really want to be married to a guy who's this selfish? If he's like this right now, can you imagine how he could be while married to you? So you can now answer if he's really worthy or not.
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