Desperadoes Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 So here we go.. A year ago almost, I moved from far away to my new city -A. Here I had the blessing to meet my new boyfriend at once and fall in love quite rapidly. My social network until today is mainly dominated by his folks and mainly his female friend. As positive person I tried to embrace her as much as I could but always felt that any positivity I got from her was only in front of my boyfriends eyes. Pause: He and her have been known each others for a year before I joined the group. They are from the same country, they have similar professions, they used to hang a lot around together as fresh singles- doubt if there was anything more than that at least from his side. For my boyfriend she is very precious as he has been moving all his life and thus it's difficult to keep up the connections with all his friends at each time The time is passing and it obvious that we (me and her) don't connect and on top since I am fed up with me making the effort all this time - I stopped being proactive to any type of communication. At the end any true friend if she would really mind she would have made some effort. Nope! Instead she has become very persistent with my bf. texting, asking him for going out with "us" out and of course if he cannot make it there is no further communication towards me. I feel i am in a battle of attention, and many small things have been pilling up and now I am almost getting to my explode zone. I don't feel threatened in a romantic way, it's the negativity which has been pilling up that hurts and makes me very prone to be picky with anything else My bf is mr wright- the best person on the earth but can't say no to her! Should I address with him how I feel, he would totally deny it as she has been saying all the time to him how gorgeous am I and he would point out that I am not trying or that I am jealous. He might also share with her some insights. Knowing him a bit better it will cause more tension he might start hiding things- he already does some times - We are meeting min. 1 / week. It's so painful- I feel I am investing my precious time to somebody who simply does not deserve it Tried to point indirectly some incidents to him, nope he is a true man he didn't get any? So any ideas? By the way her behavior towards me changed evidently since she got a boyfriend. And there are also some other social indications of being complex full:her friends are either males or out of competition females based on demographic criteria
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