UmbrellaBoy Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 Im at over 2 months no contact, but I'm wondering how the following factors affect the usual logic: 1) What if their "rebound" is going back to an ex they never really got over? 2) What if they aren't in love with that person but have remained attached because of guilt/pity? 3) What if the reason they went back to the ex was because the ex finally tried No Contact also and they panicked about losing the ex as a friend (and option)? 4) What if I've already used no contact (a few times in the past) to force decisions successfully? Do they eventually become "immune" to No Contact? 5) What if they are the ones (or its mutual) to request an (indefinite) period of No Contact? Any stories with similar situations? I feel like going back to an ex is more serious than a regular rebound, but also still doomed? I also feel like its different if the reason they finally chose someone over you is because THAT person pulled NC first.
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