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My ex and i were together for 3 very short years. I knew he was the one the moment I met him. We were like typical love birds; crazy in love. We even used to say mushy love stuff to each other that would normally have us humiliated in public.

 

We, didn't even argue. Yet, do to some conflict we had to spend less time together, I mean barely any time. This was clearly tough on us. Well I know it was for me and I believe for him. I began to become jealous at not only the other girls he'd talk to But simply the people he would have a normal friendly conversation with. I would even get upset when I heard his voice because he wasn't talking to me.

 

Basically our split was due to jealousy. I would get so angry because I felt like he had forgotten about me. Even though it was pretty irrational because he'd tell me that he missed me.

 

I now like this huge dumb idiot who didn't choose the right words to say because her emotions were fogging her intellect. We argued and I accused him several times of not wanting me because I wanted him to reassure me that I was still his girl; bad choice. Plus, it wasn't even like any of us called quits. It was like the 'I love you But you don't love me back argue argue and assume we were over ' break up. Stupid.

 

So, I'm wondering because I always hear that second times usually aren't worth it. I love him, to death. I miss him like I'm an addict on withdrawal. I want him back, I don't think we shouldhave broken up. Please help, was a break up (which was never truly established ) the right thing?

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Try talking to him? I've been that achey-type of lover that just wants to be back together.

 

Jealousy is a strong emotion that can wreck relationships. I believe it comes from individual fear and insecurity (maybe something you should work on while single?). Regardless, I don't think it would hurt to reach out to him and talk about the reasons you think you broke up....

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