Need assistance on girls.

[Todzor]

I've never really wanted to use forums like those for this reason , but if I don't it feels like my heart is going to blow seriously...

 

So what happened is that about 5 years ago maybe 6 (im 20 now) there was a girl which I really liked, we were seeing each other (could say quite often), but also there was distance between us... so seeing each other every time a day was kinda impossible.

So what happened is I was totally in love with her as I thought she was ... we were texting all day long and it was all fun, until at 1 moment texting suddenly stopped at her side (no reason found yet). After that i completely shut myself... the funny guy i was outgoing and happy was just lost~ After all this i found myself into gaming, (which is just bad, I know everyone will tell it) but i guess that was what kept my mind of her, and gave me reason to move on.

 

So after holy 6 years that I've forgotten her now, I've found a girl which I'm interested in! Thing is I think I'm ending up the same why as before now, she seems all kind (chatting all day long and she is pretty kind to me), but behind that kind personality there is a girl that is feeding her "ego" on facebook (maybe all day long? have no idea... but sadly I know that she is doing it).

By feeding her ego I mean Posting picture which she impatiently is waiting to be commented.

 

Also 1 thing worth mentioning is that she is older than me, which is even strange to me (3 years gap). Also she shared that she is very sensitive person too. I'm seriously very confused .

Another thing is that she found me (or could I say we were introduced by a friend of mine) but the thing is that she was interested more in me than I in her... Is she just trying to hurt me and walk away?

I have no idea what to do!!!

 

Also this time unlike the other I cannot reach her .

And I don't want to end up heart broken again, (its just TERRIBLE feeling) cannot eat, it hurts and its as near as feeling sick. I am really sensitive person....

Any help that someone can give me would be really nice!!!

Sorry for my terrible English.

Edited February 7, 2013 by Todzor

[flitzanu]

I've never really wanted to use forums like those for this reason , but if I don't it feels like my heart is going to blow seriously...

 

So what happened is that about 5 years ago maybe 6 (im 20 now) there was a girl which I really liked, we were seeing each other (could say quite often), but also there was distance between us... so seeing each other every time a day was kinda impossible.

So what happened is I was totally in love with her as I thought she was ... we were texting all day long and it was all fun, until at 1 moment texting suddenly stopped at her side (no reason found yet). After that i completely shut myself... the funny guy i was outgoing and happy was just lost~ After all this i found myself into gaming, (which is just bad, I know everyone will tell it) but i guess that was what kept my mind of her, and gave me reason to move on.

 

So after holy 6 years that I've forgotten her now, I've found a girl which I'm interested in! Thing is I think I'm ending up the same why as before now, she seems all kind (chatting all day long and she is pretty kind to me), but behind that kind personality there is a girl that is feeding her "ego" on facebook (maybe all day long? have no idea... but sadly I know that she is doing it).

By feeding her ego I mean Posting picture which she impatiently is waiting to be commented.

 

Also 1 thing worth mentioning is that she is older than me, which is even strange to me (3 years gap). Also she shared that she is very sensitive person too. I'm seriously very confused .

Another thing is that she found me (or could I say we were introduced by a friend of mine) but the thing is that she was interested more in me than I in her... Is she just trying to hurt me and walk away?

I have no idea what to do!!!

 

Also this time unlike the other I cannot reach her .

And I don't want to end up heart broken again, (its just TERRIBLE feeling) cannot eat, it hurts and its as near as feeling sick. I am really sensitive person....

Any help that someone can give me would be really nice!!!

Sorry for my terrible English.

 

so this new girl just stopped talking to you?

[Todzor]

^ Well not really, but less than usual. But this facebook thing is "fearsome" for me... Maybe its just me being scary because of the previous girl story . I cant decide how to approach her without failing .

 

The worse thing ever is that when I get attached to someone (call it falling in love if you want), I'm afraid of screwing things up and ending being hurt really bad .

Edited February 7, 2013 by Todzor

[flitzanu]

she posts pictures on facebook and tells you to go look at them and comment on them?

[Todzor]

She is hoping for someone to do it, not only me. That's why I feel like I'm being playing with, but since I shut myself for so long I dont have any experience to determine if my thoughts are right or wrong.. as most people out there.

 

Also she is chatting with other guys (which are her friends from the past i guess) and that makes me feel bad too. It's like she wants a lot of attention ..

Edited February 7, 2013 by Todzor

[flitzanu]

maybe you should just ask her on a date?

[Addison312]

Another reason why it's hard to have a real relationship with Facebook involved. Dating in this era has gone to ****.