hellohi Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 My gf and i have been together for 4 years now. Before we met she hooked up with this guy was a douche but she gave him head. Anyways, we started dating after that, and after about a year and a half, we went on a break. During this break, we said we'd still be faithful to each other (we are LDR)... but one night she met the same douche she hooked up with earlier and they left the party together and hung out in the back seat of his car. She tells me he tried to make a move but she avoided it and they just kept talking... in the back seat of his car. Whenever i ask for details she just says she doesnt remember. So is she telling the truth? I know it doesnt matter because we were technically not together, but i dont want her lying to me. If you r a girl and u and your bf were on a break, and you were emotionally unstable, drunk and in the back seat of a guy you hooked up with before what else do you think would happen... by the way I am 24 and my gf is 22.
TaraMaiden Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 SMH.... Judge Judy says: "If it doesn't make any sense, it's probably not true". permit me to illustrate... ...she met the same douche she hooked up with earlier and they left the party together and hung out in the back seat of his car. She tells me he tried to make a move but she avoided it and they just kept talking... in the back seat of his car. Whenever i ask for details she just says she doesnt remember. So she remembers where they were,, and that he tried to make a move but she turned him down... but pushed for more info, her mind goes blank...? Ri-i-i-i-ght..... Judge TaraMaiden says: Trust your gut. I'd find someone whom you can completely trust - because she ain't it.... 2
Chi townD Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 I agree with Tara.. she remembers being in the BACKSEAT of the car. (think about the ONLY reason two people would be alone in the backseat of a car)....and they talked. Uh huh. He tries making a move on her. She stops it....she remembers that....she left a party in full swing to be ALONE with him....she remembers that... ANYTHING ELSE is a total blank. Dude, open your eyes. A LOT more happened in that backseat than what she's telling you. If nothing happened, she would be jumping through walls to prove to you that nothing happened. Not say that she can't remember. She remembers everything she did.
loversquarrel Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 It does matter. Even though you both were on a break, you both agreed to certain parameters of the break. Don't use that as an excuse...remember the REMAIN FAITHFUL TO EACHOTHER part? She owes you the truth and right now she is giving you a text book lesson in trickle truth. Or in other words, she's telling you the story and stopping just shy of the climax (no pun intended).
Darren Steez Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 Absolutely nothing to worry about, they probably played cards, listened to the radio, watched the stars in the sky.. probably a beautiful night that night, did some knitting...
NervisPervis Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 she just says she doesnt remember. That's liar speak for "I'm lying right now". 2
AH1990 Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 They probably played Monopoly! Come on people, a drunk girl in the back seat of a car that belongs to the guy she had oral sex with over a year ago and you think she did more!?!?...............................HAHA like that's believable! In her mind she told the OP that she was in the back seat and met the guy. She's reduced some of her guilt. But 'forgetting' certain parts, which are the most crucial part to the story? Just tell her that you met one of your past f**k buddies and she invited you over to her place at 3am to watch a movie, but once you got to her place, your mind went blank.
animalover Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Ufff dude... do you want the blue pill or the red pill??? You know what happened in that car... now you accept it and kick your gf ass to the curve or you close your eyes and believe they were playing chess in the back sit of this dude car...
road Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 That's liar speak for "I'm lying right now". I hope to remember this one and use it often. 1
Author hellohi Posted February 8, 2013 Author Posted February 8, 2013 she's really faithful though. like i can almost promise that. she is shy and she is good at saying no. it sounds pretty obvious writing it out, but she just isnt the type to cheat and not tell me. But i guess the "idk" = universal cheating language makes sense...
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