purpledust Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 My bf chooses his ex gf over me. his ex gf said he got her pregnant and a month after we got into the relationship the child was born. his ex wants a reconciliation eversince we started our relationship but he said he doesn't love her anymore so our relationship continued. he never believes that it's his child even if he admit to me that they had intercourse a year ago before we had our relationship.. and she had a bf that time cause she works as GRO in japan. confused who's the father of the child but then supports the child's needs since it was born. he gave me assurance that they only communicate because of the child's needs and would never get back together. For 9 long years his ex still hoping for a recon and really wanted my bf back. but he insisted. last year he proposed a marriage to me, i was so happy. but after 5 mos things have changed. he got so confused and mad at me. thanking me for the memories we've shared. i was shocked hearing this things cause i know we will get married soon. he said he has no option but to leave me cause of the following reasons: 1. his son hate him cause he keeps on hurting her mom and this ripped his heart apart for the things that the son told him. (idk what was it, never told me that til now) 2. he still loves his ex (he said he would never looked back. once she cheated she will repeat it again and do it forever.) i ended the relationship. he send messages that he misses me but i ignore it. went NC. blocked him in my phone. after 2 weeks he emailed me saying he misses me again. broke NC after 2 weeks he replied after 4 days still missing me. We were very happy and in love. seems the relationship was perfect. even if it's LDR we're both contented and had the same wish that someday we will be together forever. why changing his mind so easily? How can i move on? this really hurts. I'm so hurt and have never felt pain like this before. It's just too overwhelming. i want to get rid of this pain in my chest. I feel betrayed by someone i completely trusted. been 6 weeks since BU. can't get him out of my head. BU repeatedly playing on my mind! We have been together for 9 yrs LDR.
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