Mia85 Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 Hi, I have been seeing this guy only about a month, we have slept together after like the 3rd date and we met while I was on summer holiday through mutual friends. We have a lot in common and are both really keen horse riders so we hung out a lot over this month, he took me away to some rodeos, we traveled together and spent a lot of time together. he introduced me to his family and everything and I got along with them really well, and he also told me that he doesnt usually take girls home to meet them but he liked me.. I went to his 21st birthday the last weekend I was on holiday as his date, he was really attentive and caring in front of his family and friends and we decided that when I came back to uni we would keep seeing each other casually and he said he would drive down to where I live (about 4 hrs drive from his town) sometimes to visit. BUT- yes here is the but... Since then I have hardly heard from him, its been 4 days and he hasnt txt me, I spoke to him once on facebook 2 days ago but i initiated the conversation and I didnt ask him anything about when he might come down.. I dont want to seem like i am pressuring him but it seems kinda odd that he has stopped texting me as much.. does this mean he is really not that into me after all?? and would I look desperate if I text him first.. 1
youaremysunshine Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 Hey, not as cynical as the above poster. Sounds like he is genuinely into you, but distance is complicating things. Give him time to miss you and don't text much 2
Author Mia85 Posted February 7, 2013 Author Posted February 7, 2013 both good replies... yeah, well i thought initially it would be a summer fling (which i dont make a habbit of doing).. but then I liked him- and thought he liked me so things got complicated.. but yeah I should probs just chill and see what happens.. how do guys keep it so cool!!
Author Mia85 Posted February 7, 2013 Author Posted February 7, 2013 both good replies... yeah, well i thought initially it would be a summer fling (which i dont make a habbit of doing).. but then I liked him- and thought he liked me so things got complicated and now i REALLY like him :-( .. but yeah I should probs just chill and see what happens.. how do guys keep it so cool!!
TaraMaiden Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 Hi, I have been seeing this guy only about a month, we have slept together after like the 3rd date and we met while I was on summer holiday through mutual friends. We have a lot in common and are both really keen horse riders so we hung out a lot over this month, he took me away to some rodeos, we traveled together and spent a lot of time together. he introduced me to his family and everything and I got along with them really well, and he also told me that he doesnt usually take girls home to meet them but he liked me.. I went to his 21st birthday the last weekend I was on holiday as his date, he was really attentive and caring in front of his family and friends and we decided that when I came back to uni we would keep seeing each other casually and he said he would drive down to where I live (about 4 hrs drive from his town) sometimes to visit. BUT- yes here is the but... Since then I have hardly heard from him, its been 4 days and he hasnt txt me, I spoke to him once on facebook 2 days ago but i initiated the conversation and I didnt ask him anything about when he might come down.. I dont want to seem like i am pressuring him but it seems kinda odd that he has stopped texting me as much.. does this mean he is really not that into me after all?? and would I look desperate if I text him first.. Only one month? Sex already? Lives a 4-hour drive away? A whole lot of effort for a holiday fling. You need to drop-kick and move on. Seriously. it's not serious. 1
Author Mia85 Posted February 7, 2013 Author Posted February 7, 2013 opps dunno what happened- accidentally posted twice :-S damn internet
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