Ruby Slippers Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 No. How about don't be tacky and share your sexual preferences with the world? I don't get people these days, sharing details of their sex lives and sexual preferences online with everyone and their mom. To me, it's like standing up at Thanksgiving dinner and saying, "Hey, everyone, I think taking it up the butt is awesome." Yeah, cool story, everyone needs to know that. Yeah, to me these are further signs of an empire in decline. So many people have no decency, tact, or respect for themselves or others at all. And think they're cool for sounding wild and over the top I'm sexually open-minded, but I just don't want to hear all the grimy details of everybody's sex life. LS is a bit different, because most of us are anonymous. But on FB? Have some class. 5
artchick88 Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 WHAT?!?! The problem isn't that he "likes big boobs," it's that you're upset that yours might be too small for him and not that he is a completely disgusting idiot who would put that up on a public place and "like" it on facebook. What a loser!!!!!!!!!!! This, hopefully, will not be the man you marry. also, you need to work on your self-esteem if you give two shi*ts how big your breasts are compared to ULTIMATE BIG BOOBS!!!
Author PyroBunny Posted February 8, 2013 Author Posted February 8, 2013 Thanks for all the replies...some were insightful and some got a little side tracked - but all are appreciated. First off, I have no issues with my boobs, or my whole body for that matter. Age - I'm 27 and my boyfriend is 35. Just on a side note, I work in an environment where it is 98% men, I studied with mostly guys (mechanical engineering), so I have heard and seen it all - I know how men think (for the most part). But sometimes I feel that I lost out on gaining that 'girlfriend/female' persective of what is acceptable and what is not in a relationship. Thats why I want to just get outsider perspectives on this issue. One side of me says 'they are just boobs, and men love boobs' and the other says 'why is he doing it openly for everyone to see' (its fine if it was private and only I knew about it). I know facebook is just a waste of time (most of the time) and what happens there is 90% nonsense. But it is still a place where people can see whats going on in your life. My main issue was that it is public and that his mother, our mutual friends, his friends and family that I have met, can see this - either when he liked it or when they go on his fb and look at his likes - I just feel its a bit uncalled for. Seeing (as I mentioned) that that page is open and you don't have to like it to gain access to the big boob pictures. I'm not uptight, conservative or boring; I'm all for privately enjoying whatever he wants to look at - and I've told him that many times before. But I would also like to uphold my reputation as a decent, well-mannered person and I want his family and friends to see me like that. But yeah, I probably just need to tell him that my issue is that its public. Oh, and our relationship is otherwise great - no other issues or douchy behavior from his side. Thanks again!!
veggirl Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 This guy is 35?! Omg. No. I'd ask him to unlike it because it makes him look like a douchey overgrown frat boy. How embarrassing!! 5
Janesays Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Id expect that behavior from a teenager or even early 20s. But at 35? No. Just no. He needs to grow up and learn to behave with some class and maturity.
silvermercy Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 I also thought his age was not past 19. Maybe 21 max... But 35!? How Neanderthal of him. Have a discussion with him.
ChessPieceFace Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Only thing I find weird is that he would Facebook-like what is basically softcore porno / skin material. Why do that on Facebook... Men like boobs. I love looking at them and am definitely a "boob" guy. But while they are appealing to look at, they've never factored into a requirement for anyone I would date. The girl I'm attracted to most right now has small boobs. It doesn't matter and in fact I wouldn't WANT hers to be bigger - I think her body is just perfect how it is. So: - believe your BF when he says he likes your body, there's no reason not to trust here and if you distrust you are damaging the relationship for no reason - just accept that guys like boobs and don't take it personally - tell him it's trashy to "like" that stuff on FB 1
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