xxoo Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 Just say, "Hey, did you know that if you 'like' a page like that on FB, your mom and my mom and everyone's brother can see you did that?" Then tell that you felt like poop when you saw that, and realized everyone else saw it, too. Hopefully, he'll give a damn. 1
pteromom Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 It's not his fault that she's unhappy having a small chest. Of course it isn't. But part of being in a relationship is being kind to each other and taking each other's feelings into consideration. It would be wrong of her to publicly post on FB about how she loves men who are the opposite of him.
sabre80 Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 OP is insecure because she has small boobs. She feels some big-boobed imaginary female will catch her bf's eye and steal him away from her. She feels all the big boob girls are secretly snickering and her little tater tots behind her back. This is why so many perfectly attractive and well proportioned women end up getting boob jobs, they are SO worried about what other people think about them and SO unhappy with themselves and they think little bits of plastic and water and saline shoved into their chest cavities will make them a better person. It's so sad. It is sad. . . sad that society says it isn't beautiful. Boobies are beautiful. . . PERIOD. Big boobies, little boobies, floppy boobies, perky boobies, conical boobies, round boobies, big nipples, little nipples. Boobs. . . LIKE Her insecurity is justified. She has little bitty boobs, which makes her less valued as a woman in our society than the big boobed variety of female. She doesn't have little bitty boobs. She is a B cup. B's are pretty.
sabre80 Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 What is sad is that for every douche bag that feeds insecurities to their girl about her size or pressures her for a boob job, there are scores of men who are MORE than happy to shower girls like the OP with compliments for a few pictures in my. . .er I mean their inboxes. Pyro I am sure you have gorgeous boobies. I can't be sure though my inbox is still empty.
Pyro Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 Pyro I am sure you have gorgeous boobies. I can't be sure though my inbox is still empty. I don't have man boobs.
sabre80 Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 I don't have man boobs. LOL I meant pyrobunny 1
Drseussgrrl Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 So - if she's really that unhappy with her boobs, get a boob job. Big effin' deal. But I don't think that's the case here. He's obviously just a red-blooded male who saw a FB boob page scroll through his feed and in his ape-man moment did a Homer Simpson-esque "Booooooobs" and clicked "like" without thinking that everyone could see the activity. This topic has spun way out of control, as is usual here on LS.
kaylan Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 (edited) OP, you are making a big thing out of nothing. People arent attracted to just one thing. There are pages on fb for women with smaller breasts and realistic bodies. Jeez. If I was seeing a girl, and she liked a page for Fireman models, I wouldnt get all bent out of shape about it. They are all generally tall, white, super hunky and fit. While Im average height, black, still pretty fit, but not a beefy hunk. All Id figure is "yeah those guys look good and itd make sense for girls to be attracted to that...but guess what? My girl is with me and finds me to be sexy" Have some confidence in yourself. Boobs are overrated tbh anyways. Big or small, they all function the same and guys generally like most, if not all boobs.If she like big dicks she would have a different boyfriend. Penises dont have the same function as boobs. So thats a stupid comparison. If my gf liked chiseled chests, I wouldnt get butt-hurt about it. Then again, I have ample chest myself lolz. Edited February 7, 2013 by kaylan 2
sweetjasmine Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 He's obviously just a red-blooded male who saw a FB boob page scroll through his feed and in his ape-man moment did a Homer Simpson-esque "Booooooobs" and clicked "like" without thinking that everyone could see the activity. Nothing says attractive like a neanderthal with a one-track easily distracted mind and poor impulse control, eh? 3
Untouchable_Fire Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 So, on one side I feel like I'm making a mountain out of a mole's heap, and on the other side I feel that he is being inconsiderate of my feelings. Am I being unreasonable?? I think he is clearly in the wrong. However, I think you are fairly confused on your feelings about this. Does it make you feel insecure that he likes large breasts? Or are you more embarrassed that he declared it publicly? Or both? I would just have a frank conversation about this with him. I would ask him how he felt if you 'liked' a big penis page publicly and request that he think about it. Bottom line... it isn't a big deal, but it isn't so small a deal that you should let it slide!
xxoo Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 Big or small, they all function the same and guys generally like most, if not all boobs. Agreed. The issue not that he likes other boobs (what guy doesn't?), but that he "liked" them on facebook--for all to see. Before I read this thread, I noticed that one of my fb friends "liked" a photo of men with abs on fb. I wondered if her H would mind, since he doesn't look like that. If he doesn't mind (and he may not....), then I don't care. But the OP does mind, and I hope her bf would care!
kaylan Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 (edited) Exactly. It's the sharing the stupid thing on FB that makes what he did tacky and disrespectful. If you like anything on fb, it shows up on your wall. Not the guys fault. He didnt share anythingI think he is clearly in the wrong. However, I think you are fairly confused on your feelings about this. Does it make you feel insecure that he likes large breasts? Or are you more embarrassed that he declared it publicly? Or both? I would just have a frank conversation about this with him. I would ask him how he felt if you 'liked' a big penis page publicly and request that he think about it. Bottom line... it isn't a big deal, but it isn't so small a deal that you should let it slide! Lemme state again that I hate this comparison. Boobs and penises are not comparable. Boobs vs a chiseled chest with nice abs are comparable.Agreed. The issue not that he likes other boobs (what guy doesn't?), but that he "liked" them on facebook--for all to see. Before I read this thread, I noticed that one of my fb friends "liked" a photo of men with abs on fb. I wondered if her H would mind, since he doesn't look like that. If he doesn't mind (and he may not....), then I don't care. But the OP does mind, and I hope her bf would care! Oh wells. This is why I cant date insecure women lacking confidence. I have my own insecure moments, but if someone is with me, I know its cause they think Im sexy. Plus when you take care of yourself and look good in your own way, why worry about other people who look good in a different way. Most people are attracted to a variety of things. As I said in an earlier post, I wouldnt be troubled if a girl I was seeing liked a pages on fb. Edited February 7, 2013 by kaylan
sweetjasmine Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 If you like anything on fb, it shows up on your wall. Not the guys fault. He didnt share anything If your settings are such that clicking like posts something on your wall, then you're sharing when you click like and it shows up on your wall.
TheGuard13 Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 So where does the line get drawn, then? Should he also avoid publicly friending girls with bigger breasts? I think this is an insecurity issue. He should be sensitive to your feelings, but in terms of indirect contact...its entirely possible he wouldn't realize that you'd be able to see something like this, or that others would, etc. Yeah, "liking" big boobs on Facebook is tacky. Facebook is kind of tacky in itself a lot of the time. How old is this guy?
kaylan Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 If your settings are such that clicking like posts something on your wall, then you're sharing when you click like and it shows up on your wall. People can still go to your profile and view your likes. Ive seen OPs situation happen in the past because someone was snooping their partners likes on their profile.
sweetjasmine Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 So where does the line get drawn, then? Should he also avoid publicly friending girls with bigger breasts? No. How about don't be tacky and share your sexual preferences with the world? I don't get people these days, sharing details of their sex lives and sexual preferences online with everyone and their mom. To me, it's like standing up at Thanksgiving dinner and saying, "Hey, everyone, I think taking it up the butt is awesome." Yeah, cool story, everyone needs to know that. 5
kaylan Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 ^Meh, its a harmless facebook account. People take life to seriously. Liking a body part isnt the same as liking a sex act and proclaiming it to the world. Its common knowledge that men and women like certain body parts. People are so damn insecure and uptight. Sucks for them.
sweetjasmine Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 ^Meh, its a harmless facebook account. People take life to seriously. In an age where employers are asking for FB passwords before making hiring decisions, it might be wise to take some things a little more seriously than the situation might seemingly warrant, at first glance. FB may be mostly harmless, but I still think it's tacky and classless to share certain things. Yes, we all know men like boobs. We also know that everybody poops, but I'd still roll my eyes and think it's tacky if someone posted about the big dump they just took. 2
kaylan Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 In an age where employers are asking for FB passwords before making hiring decisions, it might be wise to take some things a little more seriously than the situation might seemingly warrant, at first glance. FB may be mostly harmless, but I still think it's tacky and classless to share certain things. Yes, we all know men like boobs. We also know that everybody poops, but I'd still roll my eyes and think it's tacky if someone posted about the big dump they just took. Um....employers arent allowed to do that. Thats a big HR no no. And I have my profile on private and dont ad coworkers. I only ad ex-coworkers, old classmates, old friends, etc.
sweetjasmine Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Um....employers arent allowed to do that. Thats a big HR no no. Aren't allowed by whom? Only a handful of states (5, IIRC) have passed legislation barring employers from requesting passwords. It's perfectly legal in every other state, and if they don't ask for your password, they can still ask to see your profile. And I have my profile on private and dont ad coworkers. I only ad ex-coworkers, old classmates, old friends, etc. Same, and even so, I don't want to know what type of boobs they all find attractive any more than I want to know about their hang nails or indigestion or athlete's foot or preferred method of birth control. Some things are better left kept to yourself. IMO, that includes features and traits that you find attractive but which your partner doesn't possess. 2
veggirl Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 "Liking" a big boobs page on facebook is just toolish, period. If he is 14 then fine. But if he is an adult, it's just...pathetically immature. Like yeah we know most guys love boobs but really? Liking the page so all your friends/family/etc can see? Like I said, it's just toolish. I wonder if he is a tool in other ways as well. 1
Krieger Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 "Liking" a big boobs page on facebook is just toolish, period. If he is 14 then fine. But if he is an adult, it's just...pathetically immature. Like yeah we know most guys love boobs but really? Liking the page so all your friends/family/etc can see? Like I said, it's just toolish. I wonder if he is a tool in other ways as well. boobs are over rated and woman with fake boobs are just reflecting how there are in the inside fake. 1
Els Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Huh, so a thread about a woman's boyfriend 'liking' a page about huge boobs on FB somehow turned into an accusation-fest about how women are 'so insecure' that they turn to boob surgery. LS, I just love your irony. Puts a smile on my face every day. 1
pbjbear Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 "Liking" a big boobs page on facebook is just toolish, period. If he is 14 then fine. But if he is an adult, it's just...pathetically immature. Like yeah we know most guys love boobs but really? Liking the page so all your friends/family/etc can see? Like I said, it's just toolish. I wonder if he is a tool in other ways as well. Yeah. I find guys that do stuff like this also have other behaviors that are pretty douchey and immature. In college, Id put up with it but I have developed a lower tolerance for stuff like that now as Ive gotten older. I wonder how old the OP and her boyfriend are. If this is truly the only tacky thing he does Id let it go.
Nyla Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Hi All, I would like to just get some input from outsiders on my little 'issue'. Ofcourse the trusted girlfriends were consulted but they can't really give me an unbiased answer. Here is my dilemma: I've been dating my bf for over a year now, things are great with normal couple issues thrown inbetween. About a week ago I go onto my facebook and see that he has gone and liked a page called 'Ultimate Boobs'. I click on the link and see the page is open so you can look at all the pictures without even 'liking' that page. Now, as we all know how facebook works, as soon as he liked that page, me and all his friends and family could see it in our news feed. The pictures on that page are of women with HUGE boobs and here I am with my normal B-cups. Naturally I felt a bit insulted and hurt that he has gone and openly liked big boobs and I don't have any. So I wanted to confront him about it, or atleast find out why he would do that so openly? (I have no problem with him watching porn etc, so why couldn't he check out the boobs in a more private manner???). So as a joke I sent him a picture of a really fugly chick with big boobs and made the caption - 'Here are some ultimate boobs to brighten your day'. He replied saying 'Nooooooo, not those!!'. I went on to ask if he likes big boobs and he said 'Yes but nice ones'. I then stated 'Oh, so are you even happy with my small boobs then?', he replies 'Yes ofcourse!'. But I still feel kinda hurt and the fact that its open on facebook makes it worse because now everyone can see it. If he wanted to check out the boobs he could have just gone through the page without liking it.... So, on one side I feel like I'm making a mountain out of a mole's heap, and on the other side I feel that he is being inconsiderate of my feelings. Am I being unreasonable?? I don't feel like you're being unreasonable, but perhaps oversensitive. Looking at erotic pictures is about fantasy, not reality. If your boyfriend only wanted to go out with women who had huge breasts, you and he would not be together. You cannot control what your boyfriend looks at on his computer or FB page.
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