itsmylife Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 So about three weeks ago I met a guy online. ( Oh boy ) I wasn't expecting much but we had a really nice talk and planned to go out again..and we have we went out to eat and then this past sunday I went to his place. I've really started to grow a huge crush on him which is unexpected, we have not been physical we haven't even kissed. He always texts me nice things he's a total sweetheart..but I'm catching on to a different side after today... and maybe I'm just being crazy. Sooo he asked me out Saturday then texted me the day before and said he remembered he had plans and apologized big time turned out his "plans" were for sunday instead and he texted me about how stupid he felt that he hadn't hung out with me Saturday so he asked me out that Saturday night to meet at his place the next day...the day he said he had plans for..when I called him out on it he said he'd cancel his plans for me..... regardless I agreed and it went great. We planned to hang out again this thursday tomorrow..however when I texted him how he was feeling because he mentioned feeling sick...yesterday he said "a little better"and I asked " still want to go out thursday" he response "maybe another time" I'm getting a flaky vibe from him. :/ This is the second time something has come up. I really like him and I don't want to play games but I feel like that's what he's doing. am I crazy should I believe he's sick and that he previously made an honest mistake or should I red flag this guy?
SJC2008 Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 So he asked you for a Saturday date and texted you Friday saying he had plans but his plans were really for Sunday? Then he said he mixed up the days and should of asked you out for Sat, then said he'd cancel his Sun plans for you? That's how I interpreted your post so I'll go off of that but please clarify if you have to. It's OLD so he probably flaked on you, got flaked on by the flake he flaked on you for and came back to you. THEN the flake that flaked on him came back to him after getting flaked on herself so now he's flaking on you with the 'mabye some other time'.
Author itsmylife Posted February 7, 2013 Author Posted February 7, 2013 So he asked you for a Saturday date and texted you Friday saying he had plans but his plans were really for Sunday? Then he said he mixed up the days and should of asked you out for Sat, then said he'd cancel his Sun plans for you? That's how I interpreted your post so I'll go off of that but please clarify if you have to. It's OLD so he probably flaked on you, got flaked on by the flake he flaked on you for and came back to you. THEN the flake that flaked on him came back to him after getting flaked on herself so now he's flaking on you with the 'mabye some other time'. Your good! Thats exactly what I was thinking...time to throw this to the wind I just don't have time for games. It's a shame because he;s pretty cool. Oh well...NEXT. LOL
SJC2008 Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 Your good! Thats exactly what I was thinking...time to throw this to the wind I just don't have time for games. It's a shame because he;s pretty cool. Oh well...NEXT. LOL Well at least you weren't too invested. If you're new to OLD keep your head on a swivel. As much as I was trying to be funny, it's a cold hard truth for OLD.
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