Estate Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 Hey! So I'd like some people's opinions on this. So, I know some girls like to feel "chased" and there's been some topics on here lately about "When No means No" already. So I'm looking for a girls perspective I guess... when you feel like a guy should be chasing you, how do you act or how do you expect him to pursue you without it coming across like a complete "No". I do ask because I feel like a girl I'm seeing wants me to chase a little. We've already slept together but she's not making it very easy to see her, though she still appears to actually enjoy the fact that we do see each other or I when I ask her to meet up. So she's definitely not saying No to me but is being a bit of a challenge right now (I get the feeling from some stuff she's said that she doesn't want me assuming that because we've slept together that she is that easy.) So what's the best plan of action? This girl in particular is pretty cool so I'd like to give it a shot before giving up on it. Is it better to leave her alone for a while and hope her feelings turn from "He needs to pursue me" to "I wonder where he's gone?" or should I keep asking to meet up (I feel overdoing this will hurt me if it comes across more like pestering than pursuing) Opinions Ladies? Thanks!
gillybilly Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 Seems to me that she's testing you. Sounds like she's interested but needs to makes sure you feel the same way and that your not just playing her. If you continue to seem interested even when she appears aloof, for her that's a promising sign. Take her out for a nice meal or something a lad who just wants to have sex definitely wouldn't bother to do. It would also give you the chance to talk and tell her how you feel. Us girls love to know what's going on in a lads head. So my advice is next time you see her, open up a little and let her know that you like her. Don't be too full on though as that might scare her away. Good luck. 1
Krieger Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 just chase the fat ones they do not like to run LOL joking 2
todreaminblue Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 I do like it when i am pursued, that means to me a guy showing he wants to hang otu with me and seems as invested as i am ......i will hold back to see if a guy is interested if i am worth the effort to him..and to see fi he gets aggressive if i say not up to it tonight how about this day.......pestering happens when guys try to manipulate me into a date....heresa classic....you dotn work do you you area stay at home mum you have time i work so hard i only have this day off....that to me is manipulation not very considerate or understanding what its like to eb a mum either...so ill hold off abit if i am wary....pestring is either through aggression or trying to make me feel sorry for them ...its a turn off....I don't like to chase because i wonder how the guy feels and to tell the truth makes me feel desperate......dont like that feeling....its like asking for help..dont like that either....deb
TheGuard13 Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 "Chasing" is slang for "Artificially inflating someone's ego".
Author Estate Posted February 7, 2013 Author Posted February 7, 2013 "Chasing" is slang for "Artificially inflating someone's ego". While I agree, if you are chasing like crazy and she's giving nothing back, it's not a good thing. But everyone wants to feel wanted. It's about finding the balance, hence I asked.
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