Krieger Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 I am not overly sensitive and i do not get upset over small things. I do not take thing personal when people are joking around with me. I am a good listener and i have a ton of patience's and very easy going kinda guy. Also i empathy for people.also very good at encouraging people .I have confidence in my self and I am independent. For the most part i am control of my emotions. I have confidence in my self and I am independent. For the most part i am control of my emotions. I know when I need to be strong and keep my boundaries. Being a jerk is not in my DNA even if i tried and i have tried to be one and it did work so well. It not like i let woman walk all over me and i stand up for my self and am only a jerk if you push me to me one.Like if you back my car into a pole or something all I would say is just be more careful, but if you did it over and over you will hear about it and I will yell at you. I can sympathize with a women like her best girlfriend could, but still be able to hold strength, and protect my woman. I am convertible in my own skin and confident in the decisions I make. not scared when talk about his feelings I just need hold back from oping up too soon. I am more of an Introversion but not as shy as I use to be can talk to anyone. If i had a gf would do nice things like If i was at the store b4 coming over I would pick up her favorite candy or snack just because I was thinking of her. or if i was over at her place and been dating a while and it was going good I would wait until she was like in the shower I would going her car with out her knowing and put in a cd in the player just a song about how i feel about her. I am not done lol I would make sure she was to work that day so i can text her and tell her to do me a favor and play what is in the cd player and text her something like this how i feel about you . I would do things like that out of the blue not all the time. As a guy I do not mind admitting I like shopping and am addicted to buying shoes LOL , drinks red wine and reads more book vs watching tv or playing video games. oh likes to cook as well and has a good scene of humor. I still do guy stuff like fix things around the house and knows how to work on cars and build things and watches sports . A part of me wish I was not like this seeing most woman want a players and bad boys and tough guys. not that i am not tough or any thing i just do not need to go around acting like a jack azz. I wish I could be a cold jerk or just view woman as sex objects and be sef centered. should I stop trying to hide the fact that I am a sensitive guy ? I feel the need to come off as an jerk just so a girl would like me some times. one last thing yea I have cried b4 but only when I was depressed the other day freaking out kinda of over college classes and work and this and that. 1
miss_jaclynrae Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 Don't hide it. My boyfriend has many of those same qualities and I love him for it. He owns more clothes and shoes than I do, and don't even get me started on his obsession with colognes. He has impeccable taste in things, his apartment is very well decorated, he reads and enjoys art projects, cooks all the time, we don't even had tv or internet because we choose to do other things like talk over tea and play scrabble on our down time. He is very open and honest and an extremely deep thinker as well as dreamer. He never yells at me even though I know for a fact I can be a handful, he always is one to listen and is the most amazing best friend I could ask for. He has never been in a fist fight, hates conflict, and overall is a very sweet man. All of your qualities are great, and one day a woman [the right one] will appreciate it.
ls32ssibm Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 I used to be sensitive but was walked on one-too-many times. I've since built up a thick shell.
Author Krieger Posted February 7, 2013 Author Posted February 7, 2013 The reason you have a hard time viewing women as object is because you don't understand women very well. You still believe all the media images of women being portrayed as damsels in distress, sensitive, innocent, unselfish, giving and loving people compared to men. What you need to understand is these images are FALSE. Women have every bad quality men have. Women will keep idiots orbiting around them and serving their ego at every opportunity (their egos thrive on that) and sadly men convince themselves that playing servant to their ego is somehow beneficial to them. Women will take, take, take from chumps who do this and give a little back to pique the interest. The odd pleasant text, a compliment, a flirty look - it's all about protecting their assets - you're an asset because you worshiping her makes her feel good. x2 i know i see woman do all that all the time . what I could be like every other guy and have sex with any thing breathing or not breathing with out thinking about it. yea i can look at a girl and say she sexy and hot and all that. sex has to have feelings to go along with it . I do not have to be in love but I have to like her or be interested in her . I had a FB that i did not care about and the sex was bad for me not her . lets just say after 45 min of me putting in work realizing I am not going to climax I am like whats to point .
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