Briannaconfused90 Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 He broke it off about 3 months ago for no reason and he refused to tell me why. That day, I followed him all the way towards the parking lot demanding an explanation and he end up getting into his car and closing the door in front of my face while I wasn't done talking. A couple days ago (well I tried seeking him at his workplace but I got told it was his day off), I went to his house just to talk. I just waned to see if we can possibly get back together at some point. I got a ''What the hell are you doing here'' but after struggling to get in, he let me in for a few minutes saying how it's over and there is nothing to talk about. Then he didn't wanted to talk about it anymore; kept telling me to leave. I refused until I had a full explanation and even accused him of possibly cheating. Then he went on saying ''If you don't leave, I'm going to report you''. WTF... that was mean.
Author Briannaconfused90 Posted February 6, 2013 Author Posted February 6, 2013 Do you think he cheated on me? I don't know if he cheated but I have a feeling he did. Otherwise why would he just break up like that as if I was nothing to him anymore. We've been together for 3 years and suddenly he breaks up like that out of no where. I think I had the rights to demand an explanation. Yet, he treated me like I was tresspassing or something. I was his gf, the woman he claimed to once love. Not a stranger. 1
Toddbt12y1 Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 What you are doing is stalking him. That is not kool. You need to let him be, accept it is over. He can press charges against you, for stalking him No answer is that important. Truth being, you have no proof he is or has cheated. But you are acting in lunacy; stop it. Do you really want people(some probably already), to think you are a nutcases, stalking him? He wants it over, you are keeping on and on at him. Doesn't matter why. He wants to moveon. Let him. 2
Author Briannaconfused90 Posted February 6, 2013 Author Posted February 6, 2013 I know I'm probably losing my mind but it's so shocking seeing the person you loved, not only walk out of your life but for them to do with total indifference. I hope he realizes his mistake. I didn't deserve to get suddenly dumped like that. Usually when someone does that, it's because they found someone else along the way but never tell you about it. 1
Toddbt12y1 Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 Yes. Well. Do not stalk him further on. It won't help you get back with him. He will feel justified thinking you're crazy. Maybe he has found someone else, wait till you know. Grapevine will tell you, if not, oh well. But don't do what you're doing.
Clockwork Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 There has to be more to this story, no? I mean, there had to be warning signs or even looking back now you might even know what caused him to break up with you so abruptly. Everyone says at the time that "everything was going fine.........." and then out of nowhere he left. Once you are out of that situation and can analyze it I am sure you will be able to look back on things that would have started this breakup.
Leigh 87 Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 If after 3 years, he simply broke up with you for no reason, and he did not even care what you had to say, and slammed the car door in your face when you wanted to talk about it... ..Then he never cared about you the whole time he was with you. He lied to you. ..... He is a jerk. Trust me, if he loved you or ever cared for you, he would not be able to just walk away without wanting to ever talk to you again.. FOR NO REASON..... He probably stayed with you for so long because you were a nice person to have around, while he saw other women.
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