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Why he contact me after he dumped me?


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He dumped me in person last week and started contacting me askig how I am 4 days later. I told him I'm very well and he started asking me questions about things I said during about the break up.

 

Then he started asking me random questions and even advise on cooking (he never cooks)

 

He's been contacting me for 4 days straight and stopped after I asked what makes him want to cook cos I know it's not his things.

 

Is he testing the water to reconcile or just playing games?

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He's playing games. Ignore his calls.

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he needs to say the words. Did he say "I want you back" "let's give it another try" "let's get back together"? I don't think so.

 

maybe he wants to feel that if he's not that sure and he changes his mind and he's hurtin', you'd still get him back. maybe not. Who knows why he's doing this...

 

look at facts and at what's in it for you... nothing, he's wasting your time, getting all your hopes up and leaving you up in thick smoke...

 

go NC asap, it'll do you good.

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Do you want him back or not?

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He's being manipulative. If we wanted you back he would and should have said so. Forget his toosh!

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Do you want him back or not?

 

Yes I do want him back. But he has to say it cos he did the dumping

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